Is it possible to attract an ex back, who lost attraction?



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:10 pm 
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Hey guys I am wondering if it is possible to attract an ex back because she broke up with you for becoming a doormat?

This just happened to me, I got laid off, she got really busy working 3 jobs and totally got the power in the relationship. She then broke up with me saying I don't stand up for myself and shes not attracted to me anymore. She said she saw me more of a friend, basically I got friend zoned.

My question, is it possible to get this attraction back?

I'm working on a month long plan, of going no contact for a month, completely rebuilding my confidence, then inviting her out to go shopping with me or something very casual and taking it from there.


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Yes its is possible to be able to rekindle that attraction, I do not advice to pursuit an ex, there are far better choices, and eventually you will realize like I did you cant rebuild what is lost. Your relationship is in the past but I will tell what worked for me First I stopped contact completely, go out have some fun , I changed a lot of my personality become more like a bad boy tested so much shit on girls I had zero fear, that experience changed me so after 3 or 4 months she contact me out of blue I flaked a number of random coffee only to show me I wasn’t her boy toy that she could me use for a ego boost so I game her like a new man, zero fear showed I had other choices create a jealousy plot, push and pull like crazed showed how much I changed that when I went for the kiss she didn’t refuse.


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Hey guys I am wondering if it is possible to attract an ex back because she broke up with you for becoming a doormat?

This just happened to me, I got laid off, she got really busy working 3 jobs and totally got the power in the relationship. She then broke up with me saying I don't stand up for myself and shes not attracted to me anymore. She said she saw me more of a friend, basically I got friend zoned.

My question, is it possible to get this attraction back?

I'm working on a month long plan, of going no contact for a month, completely rebuilding my confidence, then inviting her out to go shopping with me or something very casual and taking it from there.
It's always possible, but if the relationship ended, it was for a reason. Would you want all of this to happen again?! :shock:

When a woman tells you she's not attracted to you anymore, and went as far as saying that you dont stand up for yourself, for your own dignity move on.

As you probably have read around here before "there's plenty of fish out there".

There's an article called "The Irrational Desire of Men to Always Win". I suggest you to read it. Here's the link: http://bosproject.com/blog/the-irration ... lways-win/

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