Community College vs. Universities/Regular Colleges



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 1:45 am 
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It's going to be a while before I transfer to a regular university and I was wondering if you guys have any tips or advice for how game works in Community College.

Compared to an actual college, there is less of a cliquish feel, not many social circles, and to my knowledge no bad reputations. Most of the social circles have already developed and are just groups of people straight out of high school. I'd like to integrate myself in some social circles but I don't know how to go about that.

From another perspective, it's also easier to cold approach without worrying about reputation. But, it's also difficult to gain social proof.

I've joined clubs, I've talked to a lot of the people in my proximity in classes, done some indirect cold approaches, and that's as far as I've done.


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It's going to be a while before I transfer to a regular university and I was wondering if you guys have any tips or advice for how game works in Community College.

Compared to an actual college, there is less of a cliquish feel, not many social circles, and to my knowledge no bad reputations. Most of the social circles have already developed and are just groups of people straight out of high school. I'd like to integrate myself in some social circles but I don't know how to go about that.

From another perspective, it's also easier to cold approach without worrying about reputation. But, it's also difficult to gain social proof.

I've joined clubs, I've talked to a lot of the people in my proximity in classes, done some indirect cold approaches, and that's as far as I've done.
Not always social proof is necessary. It helps, but you can totally get through without it. Also, social proof is not determined by the amount of people you know.

I think your current situation is the best one for sarging. If nobody knows each other, everyone is free game without judgments.

Keep doing what you're doing or even step it up. Do more cold approaches, join more clubs, read more material, and practice outside of the college environment.

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