I have been friends with this girl for about a year now. We work together and at work we have fun, play around, and she always gives IOI's and lots of kino. Problem is she says she is a lesbian!! When at work she is very flirty and always wants me to hang out with her, but when we hang out she acts so distant. All the fun kino playing around and flirting stops when were alone at my house or hers. What do I do because I really want this chick and i get the felling she wants me to.

Sorry i know i posted this twice but I posted the first one in the wrong place. I'm still new at this

If you like her go for it. Have some empathy. If you feel she isn't comfortable with your advances (i.e. how you would feel if a dude tried to stick something in your butt), then back off.

Otherwise forge ahead!

Bon Voyage...

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Go game her and find out!

[instead of daydreaming that she is giving you IOI constantly, while doing nothing]

Exactly, plus you work with her, i am against gaming people you work with.

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True that. Stay away from gaming co-workers. No matter how hot they are, or how available they might be, you don't want to fuck things up where you work. Too much to risk, and too little to gain. Having sex with a woman is great, but having an unstable environment at work is the worst feeling in the world.

Now, if you don't care about anything I said (lol), just go for it. Maybe she's a big tease, but sometimes lesbians are not that difficult to turn into bisexuals . Simply be direct, don't act as if you're trying to change her or if you love her or something, and conduct your approach in a fun, non-intrusive way.

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Oops didn't notice this part. Probably because i never let that stuff stop me. I'd agree that it can male things complicated and atthe same time without such experiences you don't learn the skills of managing yourself in complex situations and furthermore you may never be forced into the freedom of authenticity and openness.

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yeah, unless you see her groping other girls and dressing like chaz bono...she ain't a lesbian.

it's the ultimate shit test.

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He's right about it being a shit test.

Also, though I think fraternization is still very frowned upon in offices. I'd leave this one alone if I were you.

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