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Don't get caught up in to much material, going out and meeting women is the most important part of getting good.
nothing beats experience... Sometimes all the learning is an excuse not too sarge, when i learn this, then i sarge, when i am good at this, then i sarge...
Normally I often agree with you, but if I take myself for example, I'm short, but a fairly good looking guy. I was one of those guys who for every girl did anything he could to try and make her happy. I'd always tell them how I felt way to soon, they knew to much of me. At first they liked me, and then lost interest because i did all these things. Also i attached to much to it (like if i get this girl, everything will be allright). And after they lost interest i tried to win them over with logic.... Also it made me feel superinsecure.
I've read somewhere you said you're a natural, so i could imagine that you wouldn't understand that if I didn't have reading material, i would never ever have known what my errors where, i would only stay depressed because eventually every girl would turn me down because of some fundamental errors. The thing was, i just didn't know what i was doing wrong and nobody could tell me what (until i found books like The game). Think about it, and please don't bash the people who learn these basics by books, some people (like me) need(ed) it.