So i am not very good at pua but i went on a date last wedensday with a hb8, It went very well laughing joking kino was very good from me an i recived it back.
She dropped me back off at home an we kissclosed.

Friday we went out convo was flowing so much iv forgot most of it but once again laughing joking, I say alot of the times we meet up try leading so we went back to my house that night ended up in bed, she said she was on her period but i aint to sure i did get a bj of her though an came in her mouth an sucked on her boobs.

But like a complete an utter fucking bellend i am i asked her out she said yeah still kissing an that we set up a day for sunday when she left i got a text saying she realy likes me but shes just got out of a relationship a month ago an aint ready yet but she does in the future an she will see me the next day.

The sunday i flaked for a genuine reason of i wanted to see my friends i aint saw them all weekend i told her an she was fine with it i set up a day last night.

So last night comes we go crazy golf an she ended up beating me by about 3 points but im not realy to fussed about losin or out she picked me up again so i dont mind paying for the golf it only seems fair but im sure she sees it as me just wanting a fuck an to be honest i do like her shes a laugh an i dont just see her for that.

After golf she takes me home quite early an says shes goin to her friends to get her hair done we kissclose an shes rubbing my arm whilst were kissin an that, i say when are you free next an she says next fucking wedensday.

Now this may be genuine because her mum lives about an hour away an she said shes seeing her monday an tue the weekend we both have differnt plans but tonight wed an thur she said shes busy on them all Maybe im just overeacting an just panicking an letting my afc come back to haunt me.

Im just clueless on what to do i think she likes the badboy type an i aint no badboy i can make her laugh her head of though at times What should i do should i just leave it an see if she messages me or out before wed , Also how can i make this girl my gf. Atleast i learnt 1 lesson never ask a bloody girl out on a second date

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badboy = only interested in sex, if thats what she likes

Oh an another part i realy struggle starting convos with her but as soon as she asks me a question we can stay talking for ages until the topic dies then silent moment these are still happing on day 3. i hate these moments any tips

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Im sure all girls love good sex an i aint no pushover with her i play alot of CF teasing flirting but i just dont realy look badboy i try be the good guy in between the nice an badboy

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Firstly, just be honest with her. If you want sex, tell her exactly that. Don't try to be coy here. You're not the woman, she is.

Secondly, there's a basic rule, in life as in conversations : If you don't like what's being said, change the conversation.

When you feel a dead end is in sight, just change the conversation to a new topic that you feel can be talked about for days.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

So your saying next time i see her in the convo i should just drop in something like, im going to be honest here with you i do want to sleep with you im a lad im not going to pretend that i dont enjoy sex ?

cheers for the advice anyway on topics i run out of things to say
it feels like its not me when i ask them questions like
So what do you do for fun
blar blar

infact i hardly ask questions an i should, i usually wait for a question then we get talking an it flows im just unsure of what questions to ask girls that they like.
so i can help fill in the silent moments

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