For american users, fresher = freshman I assume in your country

I was drinking at my friends new student house, we met his Irish flat mate...a 7/10 girl who was a party animal and smoked alot of weed with us.


She brought her friend round, who I learned in passing conversation is studying law at my university.

I also study law (I am a 3rd year) and she is a fresher (1st year). We spoke at length about the course, and she told me she was worried about the work load, and already homesick missing Ireland.

I told her she should not worry and to stay calm; this would pass and anyway hardwork was expected on such a course.

We then agreed she should buy my first year books gathering dust in my room as I could sell them to her and it would be cheaper than buying new copies in the book store.

Now....


This girl is quite attractive, an 8/10 with a great body and had a nice personality. She also told me she had never smoked cannabis to which I just said 'ah thats completely your choice, its a great feeling being high but dont be forced to try it'.

I felt this was the best response as she may be anti drug and there is nothing worse than a weed smoker who forces it onto people.


Now... I have a perfect excuse to meet this girl to hand over the books etc...

I am wonder how I should contact her? My friend lives with her friend and so I was thinking to get her friends number from my friend...contact the friend and give her my number to pass on to her friend to arrange the sale.

is this the best method?


Once I have arranged to meet her...do I treat this as an approach and then apply relevant gaming methods to arrange a casual meet later in the week?

Best thing to do is get her number; only pass your own along if she seemed really interested. On the phone, let her know WHY you want to meet up (directly or drop a hint); otherwise, she'll just be coming to buy books and nothing else. Make it clear that you're interacting with her socially.

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Well, two things are very important here :

1 - The way of the communication. You need to contact her directly, make an effort and get her number and then, call her. It's so much better than saying things through an indirect route where they would most probably get "Chinese Whisper"-ed, if you know what I mean. Be direct, she will appreciate that. Trust me.

2 - The tone of the meeting. You want her to be in a state of mind, where she would be more about hanging out with you, and comparatively less about buying books. It's not a transaction mindset that you need to set with her. Invite her over, mention books off-handedly and then, do your usual game.

Good luck.

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Ok, well I got her number myself when we were all out drinking sunday night.


But I have learned some pretty important news...


I mentioned to her friend Im gonna take her out for a drink and she said to be 'slow' and understand her friend is 'shy and pure'


Im pretty sure I know what this means....shes a virigin. Should this have any impact on my conduct/wording when I ask her to go out for a few drinks?