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These days I have been trying different techniques and routines to be a better PUA. I did a day game this afternoon with a group of Norwegian girls in a uni cafe. I don't think it was great. I hesitated when I tried to get a number close. I asked a facebook close rather than a number close. However, my target suggested me to give her my name instead and she will add me on facebook. I know it was a weak sign and most likely she wouldn't do it. I wonder if you have done a day before. What is a better approach to get a number close.
Something I've tried several times, and with great success is:
You: "Hey, I'm assuming you like coffee, right?"
Her: "hmm yes, of course"
You: "Ok, we should get a cup or two one of these days...what's the best way to get in touch with you? Email? Phone? Smoke signals? (smile) Facebook? Wait, I don't do Facebook...(smile again)."
Her: "Well, I can give you my...."
And you go from there. Don't stress much about the phone number. Remember, a number is just a way for the two of you to communicate in order to meet up again.
Concentrate more on your overall delivery, and getting the number/email should come almost natural.
Also, asking for an email gives you better chances of contacting her again than asking for the phone. Emails are very non-intrusive, and women don't usually mind giving it to people. In addition, it shows that you're not pushy or needy.
Good luck champ.

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