What's up guys, here is my situation, I went to a club, with my girl friend (pivot) HB10, was dancing with her all night (bumpin and grinding), now I'm thinking I'm stuck in LJBF zone with her when I spot a HB9 @ the club, now I been having fun all night with my girl friend that I went to the club with, then I break away for a while and approach this HB9 that I never met before.

Now I'm thinking this girl was wathching me and my girl friend dancing and having fun all night , so I walk up to her casually and just say, Hey what's up, let's go dance, (I didn't ask 4 an opinion or nothing) and then she just shoots me down, now I start to chat with her, get her name and where she's from, she tells me she's from Colorado and that she's just visiting and leaving 2marro, (we are in N. California, that's where I'm from) and then she just turns cold and saying she has a boyfriend, and I just get frustrated and walk away, cause convo was going nowhere.

Now I watched her all night just dancing with her friends and once in a while an AFC whould just jump in and dance with her on the dance floor, she will let him, no big deal.

I figured since she saw me with a HB10 all night it would be real easy to get her, but she was just real cold to me, now my question is this, how would of you approached her? (Now I'm thinking that just to go out and ask a girl to dance is the worst thing one can do) should I always approach with an opinion no matter what?

Now my pivot doesn't even know that I'm trying to use her as a pivot, everytime I would just open up a set and start convo she would walk up to me and take me away, and grab me and take me to the dance floor, now I'm confussed, why was my pivot not helping me, now a few months ago I told her I like her more than friend (I known her since childhood) since I known her for a long time and she has told me she just see's me like a friend, I believe I'm in the LJBF Zone, I'm confused.... Is my pivot playin game with me?

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TheMoneyMan1

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well first of all consider whether or not she was remotely near the dance floor. if she wasnt, she may just not have wanted to dance at that time. it sounds like though, like she was already bothered by somethin, and didn't want to deal with a guy trying to flirt with her, because she was in no mood for that kind of interaction. thats my guess, otherwise I dont know.