| OK guys below are some of my suggestions, The key to all the suggestions below is to build commanlity and in most of the suggested locations as you read you will see how easy it is to build commanlity at these events. Personally I think sarging at events listed below is far more rewarding than the bar/club because there is less alcohol is invloved and you get a better perception of the HB you are gaming. Gaming at bars/clubs can get old because although the girls name, hair color, breast size may change not much else changes from girl to girl. SO read my suggestions and I will elaborate on anything you are confused by.
SHURGS
Local Fairs Age range HS Early College
Do not limit yourself to fair in your direct town or school district, if you hear of a fair like 20-30mins away in a neighboring town/school. Check it out, because these girls are not to far from where you live, and will be from a different high school than you. In high school many times your chances with a girl can be shot before you even say a word if the INCROWD of the high school have labeled you uncool, nerdy, or whatever other names they need to call you bc they lack slf confidence. Lucky for us as PUAs we do not lack in that department. High school is very political and if you are labeled a geek by the popular kids, a HB with high social status in the school will not risk her status by talking, or being nice to you....... at least not in front of the INCROWD bc it may jeporadize her status. Now if you go to the fair and meet girls from a different high school, these people do not know you! Can you see why this is good?? This does two things, it should decrease your approach aniexty because you wont be seeing these people come Monday morning and two at this new school you have not been stereotyped by the INCROWD. As a note from past experience when traveling into new school districts, be sure to bring a few wingmen with you.
Battle of the bands event Age Range HS Early College
Typically, HS age bands looking to break into the industry hold battle of the bands events across the USA. IF you hear of one check it out, Rockstars always attract girls, and you may have to pay a 5-10 dollar cover, but this is a great place to meet girls, and since there is live music being played your location bounce is easy... if she is interested in you she will have no problems moving to a different location in the event to talk... Do you see how the loud music plays to your advantage???... Just make sure you dress the part, dont go into a battle of the bands dressed like you just stepped out of an A&F catologue. LIke i said these girls are here for rockstars not pretty boys.
A few for all:
Food Festivals Age Range: ALL
In my area PGH,PA towns often have international food festivals or rib cookoffs, etc... These events are another great place to sarge bc typically the local radio station will get involved and be onsite which usually attracts girls... again just go hangout try some of the food, ask them how they like the food... if the girl is at the rib cookoff...she likes ribs? well she probably also likes, BBQing, which can lead a conversation into taligating, her fav sporting team, did you play any sports in school, oh yea i also played wifleball in college, doesnt matter what sport it is you are just building commanilty which lowers her defense and can decrease the tme needed to close....but as you continue talking you will begin to build a connection all from showing up at a rib cookoff... Maybe you tell her about the first time you had ribs as a kid, or maybe you tell her about how you missed the game wining touchdown in pee wee football... girls like when can admit a fault in a funny way..shows you dont take yourself to seriosuly... NOW, I am not telling you to always just tell her the negatives bc as we all know we have to DHV, but sometimes DVing yourself as in the above sentence can actually draw her closer to you. How? By doing this it shows you are relaxed and aren't just trying to impress her to get into her pants. Think about it guys.
Conventions Age Range: ALL
Another great nightgame local is any convention in town. Now I do not suggest just going to every convention you hear about, I always limit it to topics I am interested in. That way, I am not going just for the sarge, which keeps me more relaxed and natural. Also, this works in your favor because since you are truely interested in ORGAMI, or The AUTO convention...(just showing the vast range of conventions) you already have your opener all weekend or all night! Because all you have to do is talk to them about the exhibits. Since they are there they are interested in the convention and will love talking to you about it. (commanlity) and inversely if she says she is not into it.. Say really, you must be awesome gf then to come here on your bfs behalf... IF she says she has bf, move on to the next girl bc there will be plenty there no need to steal this girl... but if she says oh i dont have a bf... you better number close.
Also, many of the exhibits will have females working the exhibit... these girls are in town for the weekend... maybe they need a suggestion where to go tonight after the convention... maybe the are looking for company... im just saying do not write off the women running the exhibits...
Sporting Events & Tailgates Age Range: All
Now this can be for under21 crowd or over: But more so for the over 21 crowd. Sporting events are a goldmine, you would be surprised how many single women love sports! Instant commanlity, you are wearing the same jersey! you are cheering for the same team! you are both drinking the same beer, you are both chanting the team fight song, you are both biting your nail because the team is down with 2 mins to go... (real easy here to hold hands KINO Build) then when the teams pulls off the win at last second...hers and your adrenaline will be through the roof, great time for a celebratory embrace... I think you get the drift on this one just build on the commanlity the two of you share for your favorite sports team.. ALSO, if yo see a girls wearing the competition unifrom/t-shirt you can playfully neg and tease this girl in a competitive way.... questions ill elabroate.
Art shows Age Range: Over 21
I labeled this one over 21 because you get to interact with the classy broads, BUT just know its a whole new skill set for landing these girls... maybe we should do a post just on landing the upperclass ladies?? what do you guys think?
Concerts/ Pavillion Style Age Range: ALL
This last suggestion is my favorite! It is so easy to be outgoing at a concert, but I never buy seats where I have to sit in a stadium chair, I perfer lawn so I can move through the event meeting new people and singing along with them. Again commanlity, you like the band RED HOTT CHILI PEPPERS, J-TIMBERLAKE, 50-CENT, or whatever band is playin, so you both already have that in common... and just by enteraining and showing you are an outgoing intereseting fun guy will get you very far at these events! _________________ SHURGS
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