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PostPosted: Fri Sep 23, 2011 7:59 pm 
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I will try to keep this as brief as I can, but I feel that I will get better advice if I don’t leave out any information.

Week 1: I noticed this 8-9 working at an establishment I frequent once a week (obligation). I noticed that she had a ring on her finger, 2 actually, so naturally I wasn’t buying what she was selling. We made eye contact and knew that I only had a few seconds to act or look like a chump. I walked up to her and started a convo by asking her if she was good at scaring the boys off. She smiled, laughed, good body language, IOI etc. etc. I left the convo brief because I know that I have about 30 weeks to game this chic as long as she doesn’t lose her job.

Week 2: More good convo, some IOI’s, told her we were going to hang out (told her…I didn’t ask) number close. She took mine and immediately called me so Id have hers. Waited two days gave her a call and left a voicemail. No response. Two days later I text her. No response. didn’t initiate contact until I saw her 4 days later

Week 3: I completely ignored her like she didn’t even exist to me for most of the night. Towards the end we started making eye contact and smiling at each other. When I left I txt her “have a good night : ) wow did I just smiley? How lame.” finally got a response. I didn’t contact her at all the entire week because I want to appear busy.

Week 4: when I saw her I smiled and said hi. About an hour later I txt her “txt me when you have a cig, will join” she text me back when she took her break and I met her outside. Now having her secluded I decided to ask her about the two rings she wears. I grabbed her hand(broke touch barrier) to look at them. I acted like I was seriously looking at them to see if she would pull her hand away, she didn’t. After about 20 seconds I placed her hand on her leg. She told me that they were from two fake marriages to two of her guy friends. We got into the When Harry Met Sally debate about how men and women cant be friends without there being sexual tension on one side or the other. She assured me that THEY just wanted to be HER friend, that she could tell the difference. I said the only difference between myself and her two guy friends was that I am open and honest about what I want. She said “are you proposing? that’s creepy.” she caught me off guard here and I stumbled for about 3 seconds with control of the conversation. So before I left I asked for a sprite and she made me some soda/juice/energy drink, trying to redeem herself because I negged her about how her Shirley temples taste like a rotten big stick ice cream bar. I txt her when I left “that was amazing” she txt back “stop trying to get me to marry you dude” I txt back “hahaha ok…how bout we start small and grab some coffee? Im free Saturday and Monday.” No response.

I know how bad oneitis can be for game, and I am dating 2 women right now but I must say that this hot mess is just my cup of tea gentlemen. Have I done well so far? Is there something I should have done differently? What would be your next move from here?

Thanks for the help guys.


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 Post subject: Good tactics
PostPosted: Fri Sep 23, 2011 9:06 pm 
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You gamed her very good. Just few mistakes you made. Guys think their status goes up by doing something and being active and trying to show her you are an alpha male. The opposite is true. A combination of not reacting to her shit tests and being able to express your sexuality will make you an alpha male. When a girl gives you a shit test either ignore it or make fun of it. For example in your case

1st Way- Neg her with her shit test

She: are you proposing? that’s creepy
You: Wow slow down there girl. We have just met and you're already thinking about marrying me. I am not sure if I am ready for that.


2nd Way- Make fun of it

She: are you proposing? that’s creepy
You: Yeah totally. In fact I got a one million dollar ring in my pocket and I am about to marry you and take you far far away on an island were we will live alone forever. Lets go I am about to take you shopping to buy you a wedding dress.(say it sarcastically to make sure she knows your not serious)


Also the way to become an alpha male is not my making her believe that your busy but it's by actually being busy and having things to do in your life. Pretending is indeed needed in the begging when you start off gaming but shouldn't be permanent. Good luck.

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