Girl doesnt like being touched 'down there'



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PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:27 pm 
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This girl is great, after an intense 'game' she , on the 2nd date, was in my bed.
Now, she seems to like sex, - was really into kissing me all over, and giving handjobs.

The only thing is, she doesnt like having her pussy touched.
Its driving me crazy, cos, fingering or eating pussy is something that really turns me on -its just that she seems to have issues about her vagina?

She keeps asking for sex, and is cool with me touching her pussy with my c*ck, its just she wont let me eat her out or even finger her, and that is a big turnoff for me.

Can you guys suggest some way I can get some, whilst making her feel good about it - if she let me do it, without her being comfortable about it, it just wouldnt be the same.

Please help me out guys, its killing me.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 6:54 pm 
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you gotta take control in the bed! you gotta make her to be mroe relaxed. tell her that baby, just close your eyes and relax, im not gonna hurt you. i promises you are going to like it. if you dont like it i promise i will never do it again. and that is correct, coz if a girl doesnt like you getting her pussy wet you gotta look from somewhere else, coz why on earth would you want to be with that girl who doesnt like a man pleasing her?


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Some girls aren’t too comfortable and maybe be embarrassed by you touching her vaginas, they don’t have problems doing blowjob or even going for some kinky shit but if something about her body she may not be very open about it. She likes sex ofc, all she needs now is reassurance and time ( I don’t know if you want that). Relax if she don’t let you, say ok , don’t worry , when you are ready, it really excited me doing that, but I understand.


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....thats why you are better off getting it on with a girl who has had some experience in the past


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....thats why you are better off getting it on with a girl who has had some experience in the past
Maybe but people have different viewpoints, guess its up to him. If he has the time and patience for that.


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Well, you can just say, "Would you be willing to try this position? If you don't like it, we can do what we know works."

Don't just spring this idea on her suddenly, women need time to process. And that means you have to plant the idea before you hit the sheets.

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Well, you can just say, "Would you be willing to try this position? If you don't like it, we can do what we know works."

Don't just spring this idea on her suddenly, women need time to process. And that means you have to plant the idea before you hit the sheets.
You cant ask a girl what she wants to do in the bedroom! You just do anything you want with her having in mind that you want to give her good sex.
Leading a girl to do anything with you in the bedroom assumes that you have her fully relaxed which is a hard task itself.


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 30, 2011 5:57 pm 
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thanks for the replies guys.
i took the lead and eased into it, being a 'man' if you like, and sort of led her into it slowly and gently, with a sense of fun

it turns out, she has never been seen naked before, she has only ever fucked in the dark.
she was a bit nervous about me seeing her pussy, but after the initial hurdle was over, she was totally cool about it, and now walks around butt naked in front of me, and is totally cool with me giving her oral.

thanks for the advice, it really helped. cheers


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..,. now walks around butt naked in front of me
You turned her into a dude!! haha jk.

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..,. now walks around butt naked in front of me
You turned her into a dude!! haha jk.
:lol: yea, christ what have i done? haha


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Some girls aren’t too comfortable and maybe be embarrassed by you touching her vaginas, they don’t have problems doing blowjob or even going for some kinky shit but if something about her body she may not be very open about it. She likes sex ofc, all she needs now is reassurance and time ( I don’t know if you want that). Relax if she don’t let you, say ok , don’t worry , when you are ready, it really excited me doing that, but I understand.

exactly, And some girls do not like to be touch down there small % is not shit test, some girls a small % do not like oral sex... So if that is the case, then you need to find out if you can be with her or not.

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