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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 7:54 pm 
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Hi guys
right now I am at a coffee shop. Remember that girl that i talked to yesterday? the one that i wanted to tell her that we both dont have iphones?
well she came back today, i am sitting at the same spot as yesterday. so is she, so i guess she wasnt so creeped out afterall.
I told her hey, its you again. she said "ya, and its you again. do you come her often?"
i said "i have been coming this whole week"
she said "I work across the street so I come here for my breaks"
I said where do you work
she said the name of some store
I said "oh, ok" and ended the conversation. I ended the conversation mostly because i was so nervous, I didnt want to mess her up like the 10 other women i have messed up. why was i nervous? because i have never had a girl answer positively, I am used to girls ignoring me or telling me to go fuck myself.
what do i do now? the clothes i am wearing is terrible and i dont want to get up because she will see how dirty my pants are. dammit i should have worn something better.
What do i do now? do I ask her "how much do you make per hour working there?" or "how do you like working there?"
hurry up, help me, she will be leaving soon.

update: dammit, she left. dammit dammit. i loved her.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:07 pm 
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My advice sounds simple, but it is harder then you might think:
Stop worrying! Try to keep your head cool and focus, if you come across as a strong, confident guy it'll all go much easier.

You say you never had a girl answer positively? No problem, practice makes perfect, think about what went wrong and work on those things.
If a girl reacts negatively or starts acting like a bitch, it's her loss, not yours.

Also, one last piece of advice I picked up from someone else.. if you go out, no matter what you are planning to do, dress like you might meet the girl of your dreams that day! Showing that you care about your hygiene and take care of yourself is an important factor too!


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2011 9:09 pm 
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My advice sounds simple, but it is harder then you might think:
Stop worrying! Try to keep your head cool and focus, if you come across as a strong, confident guy it'll all go much easier.

You say you never had a girl answer positively? No problem, practice makes perfect, think about what went wrong and work on those things.
If a girl reacts negatively or starts acting like a bitch, it's her loss, not yours.

Also, one last piece of advice I picked up from someone else.. if you go out, no matter what you are planning to do, dress like you might meet the girl of your dreams that day! Showing that you care about your hygiene and take care of yourself is an important factor too!
so the next time i see her, how do I approach her? she probably thinks i am weird or an asshole for ending the conversation so abruptly.


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:06 am 
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Jesus dude, you need to chill the fuck out.

Do you really think that a girl THAT hot is going to be interested in sleeping with or doing ANYTHING with a guy who freaks out this much over her, PURELY because she's good looking?

You literally don't know anything about her so how could you be this infatuated with her? It sounds like you're living in oneitis land and making up fantasies of you two riding off in the sunset together.

Here is the thing you need to realize: When you are attached to the outcome, girls can smell it from a MILE away. And it smells gross. So take a chill pill, be silly, be willing to fuck up and make mistakes AND keep rolling and moving the interaction forward at the same time. That alone will make you 1000x more attractive to her.

If you have more questions just ask me. Good luck bro.

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