So anyways I was with these girls I like at a bar and my cousin was with us too she is an attractive girl and this tall black guy (6"2 I'm 5"10) came up to hit on her and asked if she was my g/f. I did not say one word just kinda shushed him away with my hands kinda like a king would do lol. He then said oh my bad bro and tried to shake my hand kinda like a homie shake or w/e. Anyways I did the buzz off thing with my hand again. The girl that I want to get with was right there too and she saw this and they all laughed afterwards.

Do you think this makes me look bad? I mean she did laugh so that must be a good sign right lol? I am pretty protective of my cousin which is why I did this btw not to be an asshole I guess it just came out that way..

you are overthinking.

If someone is apologising and giving out his hand to you. You shake it. It's courtesy.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I dont think there are any good ways to handle this... except your way.

He was not trying to apologize, that was obviously a way to AMOG. If you apologize, you just say it and walk off.

A handshake can be a very effective way to show dominance, entering your world and force you to shake his hand against your will.

So, no dont worry, you arent an asshole, you handled the situation just fine.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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