So when I first met this girl she was calling and texting me allll day and night. To be honest I was kind of into it, it was nice to see a girl showing such interest with such little effort on my part. Anyways I think I made the mistake of getting too into it cause I was responding to her text and calls all the time (not right away but maybe after a few mins to a hour).

Anyways I set a date up with her last week for this weekend but for the past couple days shes stopped calling or texting me. I haven't called or texted her either but it seems kinda weird.

I am expecting her to flake for some lame reason but I want to know before hand so I can make plans for the night. Should I just hit her up the night before and ask her if we are still on?

I am for sure over thinking this but I am into this girl and want to go on this date and test out some new skills.

Any opinions/advice?

id say just show up but send a text (see you in 30) or something like that about a half hour before you have to meet up, so she has time to tell you that shes flaking out, or if she is coming, and it dose not sound like you are desperate at all.

So I shouldn't instigate contact with her before than? I was going to hit her up either tonight or tmrw afternoon and see whats up. Ask "if we are still on for tonight?" or something along those lines. That way I can make plans if she flakes or at least know its still on.

Think she was just biding time.

She found a new challenge.

I do that all the time.

Move on.

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So then another question, I dont really want to move on just yet (even tho I prob should). I know that I stopped being a challenge for her and she prob lost interest, but I felt like she was really interested in me at first.

So is there a way that I can back-track, re-create the challenge, and start over?