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Firstly: Online game, I message girls with brilliant openers, try to establish rapport, talk about stuff on their profile, slight negs e.t.c. I get terrible replies/lack of responds. None of them lead to meeting up. Quite a few thought I was a "player!" even though I'm not. So I gave up on that one.[/qupte]
Maybe those openers aren't as "brilliant" as you think they are. And if, they think you're a player, than it's not a bad thing.
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Secondly. I go out as often as I can. Bar game/club game ain't much better. Everytime I go up to a girl, they either walk off or give me funny looks.
The girls in those bars tend to go for the tall Jersey shore kind of guys. I work out regularly and I use tanning booths so I'm ok in the looks department. I believe it's my height. I'm only 5ft 6" and 90.0% of people in bars/clubs tower over me. I went up to a HB who was the same height as me (in heels), and her attitude was that I was too short for her. She went for a 6ft 5 guy later on.
I'm a very sociable person and I'm Pi**ed off with this 'dry spell' so to speak. I've studied many PUA methods every day. Apply them when I go out. No good results.
And as for this part, you're trying to achieve a look, if you may. And well, it's coming off as contrived and the women can see that, cue the funny looks and walking away. Women can smell genuinity from a hundred steps away. And NO, it's not your height.
Height, Weight, Race.. these are all excuses which people use to mask their failures. Rise above them and look for the flaws in your mentality and body language which cause you to crash and burn.