Hey, i'm new here. Was a pretty successful AFC in the past with several normal AFC relationships with girls. (but i was pretty good at starting those relationships with girls who werent smoking hot). I dare say i don't look like an AFC. I gym regularly and is a regular rockclimber with some instructing experience (i'm 23). However i just behave like one due to my upbringing.

Recently met this girl at a club (did not pick her up with the game, we just hit it off and talked) and i may be developing a bad case of one-itis on this one because she is much hotter than any of my past relationships. Having heard of the game from one of my friends i've decided to try it out to give me a chance this girl. Also, i was pretty sick of being an AFC with AFC relationships.

While texting her i did try to apply some of text-game with negging and not being needy, but I broke almost every single pua rule on the first and second date (i did not lead on the first date, threw in some nice surprises on the second date but zero kino). (i really liked her so i probably showed some of the needyness during the date)

Apparently she was really interested in my AFC ways and i managed to get a third date. I managed to get some kino in and there was a couple of intimate moments but it didnt progress and there was no kiss (i probably would have been friendzoned for good if i didnt get the kino). And somehow i got a 4th date next week because its her exams now.

Wanting to see some action, my main issue now was i tried to up the sexual tension in my text game but she has basically skirts around these phrases and sometimes ignores them in her reply. (I started of replying her messages really late and somehow she followed and now we only reply each others texts after about an hour, we text almost everyday though).

I think i made her pissed/upset with the following texts. (i showed her some cake i baked and told her she couldnt have some because i traded them away for cupcakes. And she responded that she'll try to bake as well)

me : Now thats a challenge for u. I'll hv to rate them at least 8/10 for you to be successful. tsk tsk you are such a naughty girl, playing truat. You really should be spanked.
She : Thats way too high! well i'll try my best to make the best tiramisu then =) just trying to make things interesting haha just finished my late dinner, i feel sickkie today :$ (some embarrassed face)
me: thats cos i know i deserve the best you'll be able to reach it. aww, i really wish i could be there to hold you and make everything better, but the zoo is closed tonight =( where're you unwell?
she: that's doesnt sound too nice
me: you're so cute! i was just teasing you. can't believe you took it so seriously i wanted to see this little precious at the zoo. (sent her an mms of a cute piglet)

I gave her a call a short while after this but she rejected the call (i shouldnt have called right)

Well before this i used to tease her calling her a piggy when she woke up late and stuff.

What are my chances and what should i do now, its really eating me up inside.

Alot of this probably sounds like uber AFC to you guys. Please point out any of my mistakes. I probably realized alot of the mistakes were made in the beginning because i did not follow the game all the way. You guys may say i have been friendzoned but there are almost no friendzone symptoms just a lack of escalation. feel free to correct me though.

I have a couple dates lined up this weekend from girls i picked up at the club (but none as hot as her) in a bid to get rid of my one-itis.

I appreciate and thank every commenter in advance!

it's because she read it in a text and couldn't se the twinkle in your eye.

unless she already didn't like something and was just waiting for a reason to abort mission.

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Well, this is your first warning sign. The fact that her looks, is the biggest factor in your being so attracted to her. No healthy relationship can ever sprout from that, simply 'cause looks are temporary and relative. Who knows? Who might find an even better looking girl and forget all about this one?

Sort your inner game issues out.

Well, I'm sorry but she's just using you for the cash you're spending on her, it's as simple as that. I mean, at some level, even she's aware that you're a coward who can't escalate. And it's been three dates, and no even a kiss? I mean what is all that? These days, women are ready to jump the guy on the first date.

So, that three date duration just tells me, she wants the fourth for the cash you will be spending on her . And lunch or dinner probably.[/quote]
I keep telling beginners that the biggest problem with them is that they learn these "negs" and everything and then they go crazy shooting them in overdrive at every single woman they meet.

And what you did there, weren't even these so-called negs. You downright insulted her, even after she gave you a warning (read "that's doesnt sound too nice"), like a stupid moron you went ahead and texted her a picture of a piglet. Bravo!

Oh, you should've called alright, but her rejection of the call makes one thing very clear, she's turned off and she's scorned. Hell hath no fury...

I'd suggest you fix your inner game problems before you go on those aforementioned dates with those "lots of women", in both your sakes and theirs, for the combined good.

Good luck.[/quote]

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That was harsh, but lesson learnt. Especially about the negging.

Anyway, she actually treated me to lunch on the third date and we split the dinner even. So right now we're both about even.

However, is there any way i can salvage this situation?

thanks!