Hey everyone,

I haven't been practising my Game now for quite a long time, and I am feeling as a result, very low in confidence at the moment. At times I feel really depressed and I feel as though that depression is taking over my life at the moment.

Is there anyone else in a similar situation, that has now overcome that process of being depressed and who is got some really good advice as to how to overcome this.

P.S. I know about being Eighteen and with all the hormones kicking in etc. But now it's just becoming too much and it actually is affecting my lifestyle in terms of not eating properly or sometimes even when I haven't got College, waking up too late! And the undeniable embarrassing factor of crying before I go to sleep!

So if anyone can help, I would be very, very happy, Because to me, this is more important than just applying Game. Actually feeling normal during the day and not being depressed is what I want to feel at present!

Thanks

Vay

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'Results come from perseverance, determination and hard work.'

I think that every man in some point in his life feels unconfident.
What helps me is
1) dressing up nicely and even posing infront of the mirror ...dork
2) Listening to music that pumps up your energy (whatever your genres are)
3) Thinkin about situations that you felt high confidence and try to absorb that past feeling into the present. really helps
4) Tell yourself you're a good guy with good skills and you dont need to hold back.
takes some time to believe but inner game is a must
5) Learn some routines, even write them down so you'll feel like you always have something to offer to the conversation even if its some sort of game like the 5 lies game by Style
6) finally approaching, and whatever happens is for the best just think of the good things that your approach can lead to and not the bad.

I usually start off at a bar that older ppl hang out at. I find it much easier to talk to older ppl or ppl that i find 0 sexual interest in. So by starting off at that bar I can get into the "groove". It's also pretty funny when you can talk some high brow married couple into taking a irish car bomb with you.

Try it out sometime if you think it would work for you, cause it works great for me.

Confidence is difficult to build, it takes a lot of training. It is like a muscle, if you dont keep training it, it will go back to low power again.

So try to build up your general confidence about other things and then get more experience with girls. Remember, a set doesnt matter, it is just another set.

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