Hey gents,

it has been a real hassle finding a good wing in my area. With 'good' I mean that you are on the same wave, e. g. almost same clothing style, clubs you prefer and so on. You get the idea

After six month I found a guy, 4 years older ( I am 28) who was new in town and we connected via PU. I liked him, we both traveled a lot in our past and we had a good time picking up girls. After four nights out I started to introduce him to my social circle since he was new in town and does not really do much besides work and pick up. Good and valuable people. Girls who organise stuff, guys who naturally know tons of hot girls, bouncers and so on.

It worked good for a couple of weeks. Now he starts to become all alpha towards me which pisses me off. Example? I am in a set and he comes towards us and is all like 'Dude, how much more time you need? You are slow' or I am with a girl on the dance floor and he starts waving because he wants to move to next club while I am with a babe.

I told him that this is stupid but I am not sure if he got what I was saying. Next thing I know, he calls friends I have known for years wants them to party with him, which is cool, but not cool is not to even mention a single word like 'yeah Tom, you want to join us?'

Any ideas what to do?

Thanks in advance guys

Tom

Sounds like you guys aren't even really friends, and that's the risk you run when lookin for dudes just to wing with. You both basically want to use eachother to help pickup women, and that's not necessarily bad when you also look out for your bud. But now it seems that he, at least, wants you to wing but doesn't want to occasionally take time off to just help you. If this guy's your buddy, he'll have heard you out and will do better next time. Hell, ever consider that he called your friends in so as to surprise you? Maybe I'm too optimistic, but why else would he call people in if not to go "hey guess what dude? since i was kind of a dick last week i called some people to join in!"

If I end up being wrong, and he continues to be a dick, just bail on him.