Ok long story short i have been having late night make out sessions with my new appt neighbor for about a week now. Just met and we were getting along very well but she had just gotten out of a 3yr relationship. Anyways we usually stay up all night and make out and talk but 2 days ago we almost had sex but i was a pussy and didnt. She had told me earlier in the night she was "wasted." That same night she dropped the line "i think you are starting to like me too much," laughing but i could tell she was serious.. I just laughed at her cause i didn't know what to say. I guess in reality i was starting to like her too much..shes definitely a hb9.

After the night of almost having sex the whole thing changed. The next day she text me a few times but was sorta weird..she did stop by and invite me to dinner but i was tired. Well i stopped texting her because of that comment and how she started acting..i mean we use to talk everyday and now she doesnt text me?? come on.. so we didn't talk all day yesterday until she saw me and the same club as her and then she text me

hb9: hahaha i saw you!
me: where?
hb9: i just left (bar) Lol
me: haha we were there
hb9: Weird. Lol well have a good night
hb9: didn't mean to bother you lol
me: you are pretty bothersome. we might be drinking at my place if you wanna come
hb9:ehhhh i dunno ill just see you around sometime hehe
hb9: ps i really dont like that bar
me: no one does..the girls wanted to go there
hb9: oh i see haha

I had a feeling i wasn't going to talk to her yesterday so i text every girl in my phone and found 2 to go out with so she saw me with 2 hot chicks i guess but the only reason she text me was she saw me, or so i feel.

So what should my next move be..i dont want to not talk with her but i dont want to text her because she obviously thinks differently about me now..maybe im just overthinking or caring too much.. ANy advice would be appreciated!

I shouldve had sex with her that night.. DAMNIT.. she is seriously hb9 maybe hb10 but i wont go that far

well firstly try and not use a rating system, when you do that your bassicly putting her on a pedestal in your own mind, for instance a 9 is super hot.. so you begin to think shes above all the other girls you talk to and it gets you more nervous and in your head which is bad, i quit the rating system and it helped me out alot lol, as far as her not txting back, i have a forum post on that here girls-not-txting-back-try-this-vt101251.html?highlight=

and when your txting never take things to serious, everything through txt should be fun, if its not and shes trying to explain or resolve a problem over txt then thatd be immature on her part, maybe you looked to much into it, again never take anything over txt serious, i use my phone for two or three reasons only.. 1. to keep me on her mind while im not around occasionally, 2. to set up dates and have fun with her in person, 3. and to sext (only if your sexually involved with her in person first)

hope all this was able to improve your problem let me know how things go

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Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

k i agree..i probably shouldn't use the scale. And i will keep the other info in mind. We never had arguments or anything thru texts or in person.

We had just been hanging out every night for a week..she tells me she thinks i'm "getting too attached" while she is making out with me and naked..then she wanted to have sex that same name but i pussed out.

Now the whole relationship has changed and we have no contact after that message from last night i showed you

I'm too confused with this one.. Anyone else have suggestions/things i couldve done better/ still might be able to do to sleep with her