So last week my ex started talking to me again randomly. We broke up just about two years ago and I have changed A LOT. I believe for the better, but she did enjoy being with me when I was a complete AFC. (this is embarrassing to admit but I actually didn't know how to make out so our first kiss i just like gave her a peck on the lips and held it there for a few seconds...) However, now I am in college and into game so I have gained a lot of confidence and I am a completely different person. Also, I should add that she broke up with me for another dude and has been together with him since we broke up and according to facebook they're still together. The weird thing is I SPAM with her for a couple hours and I was getting all kinds of IOIs. I don't know if you're supposed to see IOIs the same over SPAM as you do in person, but she seemed totally interested.

Basically after all that rambling, I'm really only asking for little hints and tips on how to be successful with her this Saturday when we hang out. Also, how can I know she wants me over her boyfriend? Is there any thing I can say that can get her to talk about him that's not as blunt as saying like "how are you and your boyfriend doing?"

Why would you ever want to go back?

Especially, to a girl who left you for another guy. What's to say she won't do the same when she's with you, AGAIN?

I'd recommend you forgetting everything about her and moving on.

Finding new girls to meet and date is much, much better than going back to your familiar haunts. Trust me.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I don't know. I guess I still have slight feelings for her, but in all honesty you're absolutely right. However, I am still going to hang out with her later but I don't think I will try to get with her or anything. I guess it just took someone else saying that to get me to realize this idea was stupid haha