Hi folks, long time stalker, finally found a need to post.

I have been dating this girl for nearly a year now. Just casual dates now and then, she was really into me. Yesterday morning I find a lovely message in my inbox: she is confused about us dating because she doesn't know where we are going with it. Its pointless cause it is never going to be anything more. So she started to think that its a good idea to break up now rather than later so we don't get hurt as much. Apparently she claims I've been playing with her emotions all year.

The reason why we are stuck at dating is partly because she is scared of relationships and partly because she wants to enjoy her social life. That is why we had decided to keep on dating /only/.

The immature part of this was that after she left the message, she left for a week abroad. Now I have to painfully wait an entire week to get this over with. Who the hell leaves someone hanging for a week?

Anyway does this confusion mean that she is no longer interested in me? And advice on what I should do? Thanks.

- Lolzart.

Edit: she went abroad with her family, not for a spring-break-type vacation with friends.

i really dont want to put this in your head but possibly she is planning on going a tad bit mad while she is away and doesnt want to feel any guilt while she is doing this.

The highlighted part of the post says it all to me. She wouldn't be happening to go on a girls holiday would she!?

I think it's the fact that she doesn't want to feel guilty if she gets with other guys. That's how I see it anyway, could be wrong mate.

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Oh my bad, I forgot to mention that she is going abroad with her entire family to visit some relative. Not the partying, meet hot guys kind of vacation.

When a girl is confused about you chances are she found someone better or lost interest in you

Okay but what should I do?

Anyone please?

dude stop being all emotional and be the guy that turns her on U both feel for each other just flirt use that natural instinct and stop holding back
softly whisper in her ear that ofc u don't want to break up etc romance! ^^ dont be afraid to keep escalating naturally speaking because of the males tendancy to be naturally dominant its your job to show her how much she wants you YOU set the pace

Dude just be flirty
Push her buttons
;P she will love it stop overthinking and just go for what u KNOW she wants because she DOES feel for you ... so why stop? don't you feel the same?

Any girl what love to get a bit more serious after a whole year... That's not dating 101 where you're just meeting her and you're trying not to go all out. Doesn't mean you should forget about being the prize, but make the relationship a bit more stable and secure if you want anything more serious.