Ok so I met this cute girl online. I literally told her to meet up with me as the opener and she accepted. We went out on 3 dates over the course of a week and a half. She was crazy into me to the point where I couldn't keep up with the amount of texts she had coming at me. I attribute a lot of this to how I was able to escalate it sexually from the first date onward. She would even view my profile after each date (?!). I didn't bang her though. I thought that was easily the next date. But I'm pretty sure it's fucked now. Just wondering about what happened here.

Basically - we had a long holiday weekend here. She hinted at how she didn't have anything to do, but I was out of town for part of it. I texted her when I got back, and she started asking what I was up to. Thing is, I felt like shit from partying for 3 days and just texted her back terse answers. Didn't text her again for 4 days, then asked her how her week was going. No answer. I've never created more attraction with a girl, and then destroyed it so quickly. Was it really such a dick move not to text for a few days?

I'm not a master by any means but I've done this before myself and I can tell you you messed up with the crappy text when you returned. I think that was your last chance. I had a similar situation. Two girls got in touch with me and I told them I was hung over, and I asked if they would nurse me back to health as a joke. The 1st came over and made me tea. But I wouldn't kiss her, I was too afraid of rejection, so she left mad. The 2nd girl brought me food, she showed me ALL of her tattoos on her body. But the motion of sex would ensure I throw up on her.

You should have at least invited her over. But you messed up at the beginning really, by the 3rd date you should have sealed the deal if she was that crazy over you. And what was the deal with you not texting her?

Haha. Yeah man - I think you are spot on here. To be perfectly honest, I was attracted to her, but just not as into her as she was into me.

Live and learn - can't go hot and cold on them I guess...

Thanks for your insights - the bullshit of it is if I hadn't been so hungover for days, I would have texted her back.

Exactly! Take it as a you live and you learn lesson. I'm glad that my burn outs and help improve your turn outs. Haha, i wanted that to rhyme so bad.