hi guys
I finally worked the courage to talk to a woman. yay!

ok, I am going to describe a situation and how I acted. I want criticisms.

I was sitting at this coffee shop. This coffee shop has only 2 power outlets by this one table that i was sitting at. so I was sitting there and I notice that this semi attractive girl (maybe 25 yrs?) is looking under the tables. I told her "there are no power plugs anywhere else, I checked them all." she goes "oh ok, its not a problem."
so she sits behind me at a table and I tell her "there is an additional plug here"
she said "I thought someone is using it"
I said "no, no no, there is an additional one. you can use it"
she says "what?"
I say "see, there is additional holes here. you can plug it in here" (dammit, mistake #1, you are not supposed to be Mr. nice guy)
so she gives me her power cord and I plug it in. all this time I am thinking "how do I impress her, how do I impress her" (mistake #2: you are not supposed to try to impress. this goes back to #1, dont be Mr. Nice guy, its none of your business if her laptop doesnt work.)

This other guy who was also witnessing this whole thing starts saying lame things like "when there is a pretty girl around, I always leave a power plug" I dont know what the hell he was talking about, but this was very helpful because it allowed me to see how lame I am. wow, I will never make "pretty girl" comments, its so lame.

so the guy goes outside to talk on the phone and I turn around and tell her "I think that guy likes you"
she says "that sucks"
I say "why? you dont like him?"
she says "no, I dont like anybody"
I say "ok" and turn around to do my work.

That was it. she was just working on her laptop and I was working on my laptop and we never talked again.

Now situation #2.
a few minutes later, this MILF walks in and she starts looking around. the lame guy says there are no other plugs here. I say "ya, these are the only 2 power plugs here, but you can sit here if you want"
she says "you dont mind if I share a table with you?"
in the old days, I would have said "absolutely not, i love you, i am desperate, please please sit here" but this time I just stared into her eyes and said for a good 5 seconds "hmmmmmmm....hmmmmmmm (as if I am thinking)
she goes "you do mind?"
I said "no, you can sit there if you like."
so she left her laptop there and went looking around and she comes back and picks up her laptop to leave. I say "you are leaving?" she says "ya, its so hot here, I would rather be somewhere cooler"

One regret that I have is when I was thinking about whether or not she can sit there, I should have said "I dont like women with small boobs" or is that not appropriate?

Anyway, sorry about the long post. I am very new to interacting with women, to me, women are like aliens, its not natural to me at all. Can you tell me what you would have done? did i do anything bad?

Hahahaha, yes very inappropriate!! Unless she actually has gigantic boobs and you say it with a huge smile. But you would need way more experience to deal with the conversation afterwards. Leave those types of comments to the professionals and hill-billys.

Congratulations on your first steps. Continue to interact with women, men, milfs, grannies ect.. Practice makes perfect. Tons of information regarding conversation, humour, sexuality and general flirting all over the web. Read some field reports on this forum and learn from them. This process is like starting a new job in a new field or picking up a new hobby. At first it's hard work, but becomes second nature after a while.

Not saying that anything went bad in your interactions, I would recommend just try to strike up convos with no intention of picking girls up. Get more comfortable with being social first. Picking the girls up second.... But if you see your chance take it.

Cheers,
- Funny stuff, glad you can see the difference