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"vibing" sounds a little bit AFC to me.
This is why I'm interested in seeing how other people have tried to define "vibing". The term gets thrown around A LOT, but it means different things to different people. To some, vibing is the same as relating.
To me, vibing is sub-communication, and it has two components. There is the vibe that a person creates, and there is the process of observing and interpreting the vibe that others give off.
For example, when a PUA opens a new set, the critical component to hooking the set is having the right sub-coms, i.e., the right vibe. He also has to read the vibe of the people he's opening so he can calibrate to their emotional state. To me, this is what I've come to think of as "vibing".
If this is a good definition, maybe it can help make things clearer for other guys like it does for me. The next question would be, "how do we teach vibing?".