Some will ask me 'why bother'. She's hot, I'm willing to look past some other stuff sometimes...

How do you proceed from here:

-Met this chick from online
-Good first date, although she shows up super stressed about work and it takes me a while to calm her down
-make out towards the end and she's holding my hand and shit as I walk her home
-Text her the next day and ask her out again. She immediately tells me when she's free
-I give her a call instead of all this back and forth in texts

Over the phone, she basically says she's close to quitting her job and she doesn't want me to see her in such a bad mood, so I back off and say we'll do something some other time. I know she is interested. So it's really a matter of what do you do next?

It doesn't sound like she's perpetually miserable, just going through a tough time. Game other girls and wait for her to get in touch.

Or maybe say you could improve her mood?

true - not perpetually - just currently.

So I'm just gonna throw this out there for you guys because I had not thought of it this way. What do you think?

This one dude I know said I played this completely wrong. On the phone, she had said 'are you sure you want to see me this way?'

This guy claims I should have said yeah I don't care - come on out. But instead I was saying to myself, 'I'm not falling for this'. So maybe I can just ping her and see what's up the day before we were supposed to meet. ??

Doesn't sound like a problem to me.

She's gotta release that anger and frustration somewhere...just let it be when you're in bed together!!

If you don't have a problem hanging out with her, regardless of what she's going though then she'll be fine hanging out with you

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