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PostPosted: Tue Sep 06, 2011 11:47 pm 
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Say your talking to a girl who is with her friends and you try to isolate but she says no do you move on straight away or stay again and try later, I think staying seems a bit needy what do you think?[/b]


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PostPosted: Wed Sep 07, 2011 11:27 am 
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Well, you don't let it affect you.

You build a bit more comfort with her and then try again.

If she still persists with her no-go stance, just ask for her number in front of her friends OR just walk away.

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This reminds me of something that happened the other day.

So I was at the mall on the 3rd floor with my boy(A natrual) I look over the ledge to the 2nd floor and see the sexiest dominican girl ever lol. 5'2, long hair with a pink ribbon, v cut hot pink tee with MT everest cleavage and a fat ass in some tight lil shorts. My eyes lit up *_* and I ran to the elevator to catch up with her. As I got there I saw she was with a friend. A str8 up geek with glasses , no curves, or sense of fashion what so ever. They're both walking side by side, I run up and split between them right before they walk into a store. I smile and say "Hey". My target jumps back An says " wow you scared me" I say " you scared me too, that's why I had to come mAke sure you were real" she smiles an says " yea well I gotta go catch up with my friend in the store. Nice to meet you" ( her friend had rolled her eyes and walked into the store they were headed to as soon as I approaches) I say " that's fine I'll come with you " once I do this I see her body language open up a lot. I kino a hand shake with her. We begin small talk all while her jealous friend is non verbally hoping I leave. The friend even slips out the comment " she has a boyfriend" I jus completely ignore and then number close.

Idk what the point of that was lol but I only acknowledge the friends if i see them responding positively to my approach. If not I pretend there not there Nd game as if the girls alone.

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I agree with Don here. If she won't let you isolate you either need to make her more comfortable, build attraction or she isnt interested. It's one of those three


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Punch her in the throat, throw her over your shoulder and "isolate" her by carrying to the opposite end of the club.


Just kidding! I'd keep talking and just go for comfort and getting the number. Persisting in trying to isolate every 5 minutes seems a bit.. creepy.

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If you arrive at this situation it is a sign that it is already too late. The only thing you can do is to learn from the situation and go for the next.

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You need to build a stronger connection before trying to isolate. She needs to be totally into you and feel comfortable in going with you to some other place away from her friends. Plus she need to have told her friends through girl-signals that it is ok and that they should not worry. For those following the M3 method, this translates to make sure that you are through A phase and well into C before trying to isolate.

I normally dont ask her to go somewhere but instead say that I am going to get some air or check out another part of the bar or whatever and if she is interested enough she will make sure she tags along. It is an open invitation that she will be the one taking and making sure nobody else does.

So make sure you calibrate before isolating. Sometimes it just isnt a good time to isolate, like they are only 2 and her friend has noone to entertain, then, DONT isolate. Yes, it will slow down your game but then you can always isolate in the end of the night for a ONS or sth...

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I agree with Don here. If she won't let you isolate you either need to make her more comfortable, build attraction or she isnt interested. It's one of those three

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