OK so I am new to the Game and PU in general, but I noticed something kind of odd.
A recurring theme in most comments and replies is:
"If you mess up with one girl move on and forget it she's not worth it."
However, it seems to me that this is an easy way out of the situation. You like the girl and want HER not just any girl (if this is the case and you aren't just out partying), but you chalk it up to being her fault you didn't connect well.

To me that changes the whole art of seduction and getting girls easily into, just being a bold guy who talks to a bunch of girls and gets it right sometimes just because he increased his odds.

Odds are, most people who look up this stuff are going after one girl they really like. amd instead of getting tips on how to form a good connection with her or rebuild broken bridges, they get "Move on there's a million more." but only because nobody can actually use any pick up skills when they are needed most.

This is just something I've been wondering about.
To me, learning how to 'get girls' by training yourself to ignore the ones you don't get, seems like a mental trick more than a skill.

If you fail to get the girl there's something wrong with what YOU did, not her. If there's someone you genuinely like and feel like you couldn't go without, even though you've only just met that person then you have some serious issues. If you fail with a girl you just met then move on.

On the other hand if there is some you really like, after getting to know them very well and then you start getting feelings from them that's cool. PUA is about getting to this point (unless of course you're just after one night stands ). After that,the whole game changes and most of the stuff learned from PU is useless imo.

My own personal method for pickup is certainly not about approaching randoms until success. It's built on a foundation of Mystery Method and 'cocky funny'.

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^ I agree

I see...

the reason is-people who have feeling for the girl and came here to find a way to get her, most likely already fucked all their chances up.

When you start believing that there is smth special about a girl, you often get into your head, trying to remember that PUA technique you've learnt to get her. You end up fucking your chances up.

however you might get better results with a girl you don't care much about. Its because you don't care. And the moment you do-you often times fuck up. Learning to have feeling for a girl, and still be true to yourself, without any tricks is what comes with experience.

Techniques work. But they need time to be perfected. if you have a girl you want to get, and you've just learned a new thing from here and you go try it out on her, chances are, you won't make it work.

That's why you're better off meeting other women, polishing your game and may be coming back when you're ready-and who knows-may be this time you'll get her.

good luck.

Agree with Mr Smiley. Thinking you found the "right" girl without experience means you haven't actually found the right girl. But instead you found a girl that you want and have become infatuated over.

An example would be your first crush, you believe her to be the world but looking back on it you know (i hope) it was just infatuation. Some people think they found the "perfect" girl because they haven't been able to get anything else so just settle. Or are so used to failure that the first girl that meets 1-2 things on their criteria is finding the "perfect" girl.

I believe that it is after you learn how to effectively talk and you go out there and present yourself. Complete a few talks get a few different women, it is then that you start to notice what you really want because you were able to play the field and gain experience.