So i got totally smashed at the weekend and pretty much fucked it up with this girl i like, and who was really, if not more so, in to me aswell. Now she thinks im a fucking clown and a fucking asshole. No wonder haha, i felt like one the next day. Dont know what the fuck happened really, just couldnt get it together, ended up trying way too hard, but more so in the way i was behaving, thinking about it i never really talked to her at all for some fucking reason and anyway she brushed me off. I will most likely be bumping in to her again sooner or later since she is within my social circle, where do i go from here. One thing for sure, im done with drink, it brings no advantage whatsoever. I won't be chasing after her either, but just wanting to know what you guys think from your experience, and where i should go from here. My main thing is trying to get her respect back, cos i do at least still want to be friends with her, you think she will realise it was just drink that made me act like a clown, i mean she was talking to her friend about me and was like "err, yeah he's way drunk" and just rolled her eyes, or will she be over me lol. Cheers fellas, let me know what you think.

Well, I don't think anyone likes a person who is more drunk than they are. What I would do is simply apologize (I know some people here are going to disagree with me). Tell her you're sorry you were an ass who drank to much and felt her up a bit too much (or whatever you were doing) and then bring back whoever she liked prior to your little mishap and pretend nothing ever happened. If it's not a big deal to you (just say sorry and it's done) then it might not be one to her either. After all if you create a situation where nobody remembers, then it will be so. If you think about it constantly and think it's a big deal chances are people will agree with you.

Don't apologize from a "I'm a wuss and please let me sleep with you" perspective. Just own up to your fuckup like a man.

Hangovers make you feel extra guilty. Was this yesterday? If so, the guilt will subside tomorrow or maybe the day after, trust me on this.

You had fun and that's nothing to apologize for. We all fuck up when drunk, most of us way more massively than this.

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Haha asx yeah your right man, fuk it i dont need her man, i think it was just the hangover guilt kicking in anyway shes a party girl herself usually so she should know the script - actually when i met her she did something to make me think, "whoa-oah what the fuk" but i oversaw it lol. To be honest, when i think about it, this was the only time we've been able to meet with together in months where we both knew we'd probably see each other, for other reasons i cant be bothered to go into, anyway, this was probably a good opportunity for her to screen me - like a casual date sort of thing. Now i cant stop thinking how funny it is that i went and got absolutey wankered haha. Fuck it, il live and learn. I already deleted her number weeks ago cos i felt it was a dead lead anyway, so contacting her is not gonna happen. Whats your thoughts fellas?

Well, go sarge.

And remember, pick up and alcohol rarely mix.

Be yourself, with all your faults and sticking points, atleast you'll have the satisfaction that she chose you and not some alcohol riddled, less inhibited version of you.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Will do. Yeah man, not really thought about that but yeah thats a good way of looking at it, cheers!