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So I just saw a HB10 walking down the street (the kind you only see once every 6 months). She walked past me and I smiled at her but no response. I think she saw me. I told myself, time out, let me try this again. I followed her a couple of blocks. She stopped and sat down for a minute, perfect! I crossed the street toward her and paused to build up my courage and go in (I swear I was about to go in, I have been able to build up the courage before, I just need a minute to psych myself up) Just as I made a move toward her she got up and walked in a different direction (there was a fork in the road) I smiled at her again (I think she saw me) I could not approach her because there was a wall between us and she was crossing the street.
Now at this point what was I supposed to do? Run after her and tap her on the shoulder? I'll be honest I froze up because I didn't want to seem like some weird creepy stalker considering I had already followed her for a minute and she had passed me twice. I froze up and decided the moment had passed and let her go. What is the rule on this? Is there a point where you have followed a girl and it starts to get weird? Should I have ran after her across the street?
I know ideally I should have followed the 3 second rule and gone in the first time I saw her but she was a gut wrenching 10. I mean I was sort of happy that I was at least able to look at her and smile the first time she passed. Now I am rationalizing by saying, well if it was meant to be she would have walked past me and given me a chance to approach but my heart knows that is bullshit. Sometimes a woman will do that but that is not her concern, she is a HB10 and I just didn't have what I needed at the moment.
This is the worst feeling in the world and I know I am not the only one who has been there. What is the protocol in this situation for future reference and how do I work on myself so that I can get strong enough mentally to go in immediatly? Is it just practice approaching and when I am strong enough I will finally be able to do it, and I am just not there yet? Some words of encouragement from someone who has been able to overcome this would be appreciated. Thanks guys.
you have the answer 3 second rule broken, one of the qualities women like the most is confidence, you show lack of confidence, and they can sense it like a computer mouse...
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