So this girl who I am interested in seems to have lost interest in me herself. I thought we hit it off good, although i definitely fucked up in the whole "leading" part, but in my defense both times we hung out where as casual as could be and far from a date.

I've tried hitting her up a couple times to get a date going but she keeps coming up with lame excuses. I was going to call it quits and move on but then her best friend text me and asks whats going on between us. I found this pretty odd cause I thought that girls talk about everything with their friends. When I told her that I didnt know what was up between us and about her lame excuses she just said "keep trying".

Anyways, the convo turned into me asking if this girl mentioned anything about me.Then her friend threw out some harsh shit about how her friend wasnt interested and didnt have fun when we hung out. She then told me she didnt know anything else and to call her myself...

So WTF is up with this chick? Do I just move on like I was planning? Or is this some kind of shit test?

Leave her be for a week and try to hang out again. If she blows you off twice after a week's break, leave her be unless she re-initiates contact.

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Is there something that I should say to her friend? Or just leave the whole thing alone for a week or so?

Don't contact the friend, leave everything alone for the week.


Salam Alakoom

Forget her. Forget the friend.

Trust me, you don't need all this drama in your life to deal with.

Find someone else. Someone who doesn't rely on her friends to pass up one message and then send out the other herself.

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Ignore her for now, Whatever they have discussed has made her friend curious enough to phone you up, try 'hang out' with her

Not that jealousy works or anything lol...

Or if your not into this Capoeira bullshit, move on.

Thats for sure, I guess that I just read the chick wrong the first couple times we hung out. Lessons learned......

Always go with your gut...let her go.

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Just like everyone said, let her go. Sounds like the only way this girl would have been interested is if you would have gotten another girls number right in front of her. She would have had sex with you, then she would have ignored you and had her friend tell you that you sucked in bed

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