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Ok so when doing a freez out do you reply to 0% of her messages?
I'm doing one today but I'm expecting her usual "are we ok/are you mad at me" lunch time text.
How do I respond? Or do I just completely ignore?
I know if I ignore then I'll get a similar text before bed! Do I not reply to it too?
One more question, what is a freeze out actually meant to achieve?
Sorry for the noob questions!
Freeze outs, outside of LMR are pretty standard even for naturals. Like the previous poster said, establish really good feelings and rapport ahead of time, she'll notice.
LMR freeze outs are good too...
I am freezing out 4 girls currently. Two broke it yesterday, for the next week, when they do keep trying to reopen me, Ill just respond with one word answers. (via text, email, ect) if I respond at all.
One even got a mutual friend to tell me how she "important" and how "I should talk to her."
My only response was, "Sorry-busy."
I send them to the edge and then pull back at the last moment, the key is knowing how much she can take. Overdue it and you'll lose her forever. Not enough and you'll look weak. Also- attention whore types hate freeze outs but it is normally the only way to maintain attention long term.