hey all. so here's the deal: i met this girl at college that went to my high school and we've been hangin out for a while and she know's that i have no trouble meeting girls.

so anyways...i ended up makin out with her at a party and somehow that made her lose respect for me (idk why, it's weird, but she told me that later). So ultimately i told her i liked her and that it was an accomplishment for her to make me feel like actually dating someone. she responded by sayin that she only saw me as a friend and stuff like that....idk how i got friend zoned after makin out with her...but i'm just wonderin if there's anyway i can fix the situation and get her interested in seeing me as more than a friend....

advice would be appreciated...

thanks guys.

Most important question Was she drunk on the night you make out with her?took advantage of her?

Heres my though on your story

The fact that she make out with you, she lost her respect for you, lolol is she twelve. She is fucking mind gaming you like a pro, if anyone should lose her respect its her for making something she didnt want. She can make her own decisions she made one now she has to live with. If she wants to be your friend let her, treat like a spoil little sister she will come around.

So she makes out with you and then says she's lost respect for you? Ok man you've found yourself a crazy She wants to be friends? Great you've dodged a bullet there.

yeah it's weird. but she's been like sending mixed signals and stuff. she'll act flirty and interested but she says that she's not. First she told me that she's not lookin for relationships and that she just wants to have fun & then when i make a move on her, she started being weird about it

And no, she wasnt drunk when we made out, she was totally sober.

I really like the "treat her like a spoiled little sister" idea tho, i'm gonna try that out.

What she means is that she lost respect for herself. You didn't properly handle yourself/her when you finished making out. You needed to break down her ASD more.

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

My thought is this one line simultaneously killed all the sexual tension you guys had built up and forced her (in her mind) to define the relationship. Her reaction was to LJBF you.