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 Post subject: What went wrong here?
PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 2:21 pm 
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OK, so firstly the good news. I got my first number close on the third day of sarging.
I walked up to a girl and asked her about sight-seeing in london, and she said she's not from here, and I asked here where shes from, and she said german. I speak german, so we chatted, and that was an instant connection. After about 5 mins she asked me whether I have facebook, and I said, just give me your number, and she put her number in my phone. The end.

OK, so the other two sets I approached today didnt go so well. My second set was a two-set, and they were walking. Here's how it went.

Traveler: Hey guys, quick question. What places are good for sight-seeing around here in London?

HB7: Are you kidding me? (we were in Covent Garden, a major tourist area)
Traveler: Well, I'm only here for a few weeks, and I wanted to get most out of London.
HB7: Well there's bla, bla, bla, around the corner...blabla.
Traveler: OK. Are you from London?
HB7: ...I'm from outside of London.
Traveler: Oh cool. Where?
HB7: Blabla
Traveler: Oh I have a friend from there, I've actually always wanted to go there.
HB7: ...OK. We're actually going to work right now.
Traveler: Oh ok...well thanks anyway!
HB7: Yeah.

So. They weren't really giving me a lot. But I don't want to blame it on them. It was my game.

So how could I have actually gotten them interested in me? They were definitely not going to work, they were shopping. Unless they work in a store.
They did stop to talk to me, and I did open over the shoulder and stood at an angle, leaned back, etc. Did I telegraph too much interest? It feels like the "I have a friend bit" seemed to really alienate her, or at least didn't get a response out of them at all. Like, some random guy telling me he's got a friend from there.

I pretty much didn't know what else to say at that moment. Any ideas?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 7:06 pm 
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You know what happened?

You had met a set that was not interested. And guess what? You will meet these sets again :0 part of the game. Don't blame yourself for this.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:09 pm 
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Hey, thanks for the reply.

Yeah, I guess they really weren't interested. But, is there any workaround for this at all in field in daygame?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:33 pm 
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You could try being more interesting. You're conversation with those two is the kind of small talk you'd have with an old lady at the grocery store or a stranger in an elevator. Boring!

You've got to show a little personality.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 9:55 pm 
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Stop asking so many questions about them, let them open up to you. Make an interesting statement, something unexpected. Could have said "wow london is a bit overrated.." they may bite and start defending it, trying to justify it etc. Your instantly in a much better conversation where you can neg their opinions etc. and they are voluntarily participating.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 31, 2011 10:33 pm 
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Thanks guys!


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