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ok i know this woman .. i like to talk to her and she likes to talk to me....
she texted me ( didn't spoke to her for about a week ) asked me how im doing... she told me she's bored and chilling on the couch.
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i sent her some text and told her to come on internet chat...at 22:45 she left me a message she's online .. i came online about 22:46. she's online .. i talk to her ..she doesn't say anything back.. i see her changing pics tho - i decided to wait 15 mins... no response.
so i told her i got more important things to do instead of hanging out on internet chat talking to people ( which is true) ... im not going to wait and waste my time waiting on her when she's online i speak to her some other time. i ended it with '' cya later couch patato..''
i got the feeling she was playing games ... even if she didn't play games i don't care - im not making an appointment to talk to someone while waiting 15 minutes for that person to reply. she thinks she is important but actually im going to date other hot woman as well.. she isn't the prize here...this is my life and i value it - im always the prize.
she is really high value woman but for some 'reason i don't care lol .. i feel 0% emotions....because i feel 0 % emotions ; was i being harsh and impatient ?
I am a little shocked to see you posting! However- it makes me see we're all the same in here...this is just my take.
The prize would have just ignored it and done something fun. Fuck telling her how she annoyed you- did she earn that? If you did have more important things, you just would have logged off and that would have been that. It just seems like a bit.....not sure...controlling I guess, almost like you're trying to illicet a response and you
let her know she got to you. I would just freeze her out for a week or two (I am doing the same thing with a couple girls) if they break the freeze out I don't respond with more than a one word answer. And if it were 0% emotions, you wouldn't be posting about it or saying what a high value woman she is. It sounds (at least to me) like you like her more than you realize (not a bad thing).
Also- dude you totally came running like a puppy. She was bored and wanted attention, so within seconds you were ready, tail wagging and everything, at least that is her perception. I would have taken my sweet ass time, logged in like 10 minutes after she sent it, told her I had to go soon...everything. Just my take though.