So lately Ive been gettin better with the beginning parts of the game. I can open, keep a conversation and get ioi's. This is where I start having problems. I guess years of being an AFC and "trying to play it cool" have led me to play it too cool. Like ill have some one that is interested in me but I dont really give them it in return. Then after a while the intrest from them seems to fade and we go our seperate ways. I dont really know how or when should I start to show interest in them. I dont want to come off as overly aggressive but doing the opposite isnt really working too well for me. If anyone has any suggestions or things that I should focus on id appreciate it.

You need to work on push-pull, compliment her, but then show some restraint. This seems like exactly what your asking for, search for more material on how to do it in the forum and practice. The great thing is with push-pull you can do it anytime and build attraction and show them your interested, but its their part to do something about it.

This... so this.

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hey thanks guys

this is definantly what Im missing. i recently got out of year long relationship and it just seemed like my game wasnt the same as it was before it. now that i think about it this is exactly whats missing. i used to do this but for some reason lately ive hardly done it at all.