So this HB is a friend of mine since we had 10yrs old we were like family grew up with her and some other ppl, but we stop talking when we had 18\19 we were always fighting and she always thought of me as jackass and also she moved to another city to study so we kind lost contact.
Now we started hanging out, 1 years has passed, and we became real good friends,she told me about her boyfriends problems and all that shit , i was like her gay friend we stlill fight but no matter, she is always trying to hookup me with friends of her and all that shitt ok no problem but the odd thing she is trying to match me with a really good friend of her but Yesterday she told me , she always thought of me atractive and why the hell we didnt hookup when we were 16years, was because she isnt hot enough. so she kind dare me and we kiss, and now she always want to make out with me. always thought of her as shy girl, and she is taking control of our two im not liking, but since she is my friend i dont want to treat her like the other girls want do you guys think?

i think she wants to hook you up with friends, to keep you close, and accessible to her.

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what dr. house brings to medicine, i bring to everyday life (an extreme dose of cynicism), don't listen to the curmudgeon!

There's a difference between "friend" and "lover". Okay?

She can be one of them, not both. This isn't a romantic comedy going on here.

You need to come to a decision about your friend over there, do you want to be with her in a romantic capacity, if yes, then go tell her that and make your moves.

If you would rather keep her as a friend, then make that clear to her and enjoy her matrimonial services.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Another thing i dont understand, she said that she was having erotic dreams with me. but evertyime I try to go more pysical she tells me, we wont go that far because we are friends and bla bla we have to stop, only make out and such, should i believe in this?

Well, confront her straight about this status quo and tell her that you can be friends or something more.

Not both.

Whatever decision she makes, she'll have to behave accordingly to that. No more confessions of erotic dreams or kissing and touching. You'll behave as 'just friends'. in short, let her know what she will be losing if she wants to be friends with you and if she still goes ahead with that. Act as if she's a stranger.

Also, start seeing other women. Women who aren't as confused and full of crap as this one is.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "