so I had this girl over for ice cream treats last week that I've been working on.

no Kclose, delicate situation...

but I just texted.

me:stop it!

HB says: stop what,

me: stop thinking about eating ice cream treats with me.

HB says: aww shit you knew.

what next?

What happened in your last interaction?

You invited her over, ate some ice-cream, then she took off?

Didn't even kiss her?

we hung out for about 3 hours til 1:30 am. And this was actually at her place. I brought the treats over but only after rejecting going over there the first time she asked and then going over 2nd time with a requirement for her to bring beer for a game of beer darts at a later date.

I gave her a good amount of kino which she seems comfortable with. Really good convo. She wasn't returning kino or it would have been game over. But there were lots of good things, her messing with her hair and necklace. Lots of eye contact We both sat on her bed (she has a studio apartment) and she blew her candle out and started dipping her finger in the melted candle wax. Then I did the same and wiped the wax on her and got some on her bed, which cause a joke about it being a 'dirty stain'.

I bitched out at the end though. The issue is I'm in a position as a superior to her that I have to be absolute sure she's interested or it could be bad news bears.

I figure if she starts kino-ing me back it will be obvious enough.

And I know I gotta get this figured out, just go for it and risk it, or forget it... and soon.