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Your an emotional wreck, guy and i do think you need counseling.
I don't want to give you any advice as i fear i'd be an accomplice to murder. It wouldn't go down well. " What are you in for?" "I was talking to this guy on the internet and gave him advice and he killed someone". "What was his name?"
.... It's a joke.
On a serious note, you should look into coaching, but that's costly...... But it would be worth it seeing as though you haven't come very far in nearly nine years. A month of that could send you a long way. Then come back and ask questions
Something to think about when your running on the treadmill at the gym.
Just to close the loop on this; I know it's an old post, but I don't like putting something so severe out here and leaving it:
To tell you the truth, I went into therapy within a month of that incident.
It was based solely on that incident and my reaction, even though a few months prior, I had something similar happen.
I was concerned that I was entering "trend" territory, and thought I should look into this.
The therapist said:
I can certainly understand why you became as angry as you did. (when some on this board says: "You lost your shit; you / should've been more aggressive during the date")
Therapist: "...I mean, look at everything you did for her! It wasn't your fault that you got a flat tire, and she certainly could've called you back. Then you're online later and see she's on the dating site changing her photos around but wouldn't even acknowledge you. You were right to feel the way you did."
I've been working on rejection anger management for some time now and things are looking even further up!
Essentially, I've taken the hint extremely well (in some cases almost too well) to just move on, and don't get one-itis so fast.
I'll post more on this later in a new post, because this is veering in a new topic, (EDIT: That can now be found here:
pua-lounge/rejection-anger-put-therapy- ... 08235.html but let's just say things haven't looked brighter! Meanwhile I can now quickly move on to date another girl, or sink all of that mental/emotional capital (and time!) into time in the gym, working on my career, and online businesses.
I now have girls looking *me* up and contacting me because I didn't follow-up, or because I let a conversation drop off and let it sit for a few weeks.
Lack of attention really is an aphrodisiac for women!
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