Some may not agree with this method but it worked for me

you need to have yourself a cry or scream over this one and in a very "dramatic way"

what I mean by that is try and force a tear to come out by connecting her image in her head with a terrible thing, if this doesn't work run out into some kind of field and play "oh god why why why me"

what happened for me when I did this was a numbing feeling for the girl, couple of weeks later found myself not even thinking about her which made the next random encounter with her casual and her trying to get my attention

I don't disagree with this or anything that gets someone by, its not my preffered method of dealing though. What I do when I find myself in this situation and I have a thought of the girl I force myself not to think of her force her out of my mind. In the end when I am over her I feel I mentally tougher person. Although that is easier said then done. Eventually it'll just be like a wave a relief come over you then you know you're over her that's my experience anyway hope that helps mate good luck and get back out there soldier!

I've had two girls (Both from POF) stop texting me with in the last week. One I don't really care about, the other is this sexy mixed chick that I really want to bone. I believe the reason it happened to me was because, I was being too needy. So I'm just going to say fuck the one girl that I'm not really into and I'm going to wait like 5 day's before I text the other just to see if she responds. If she does then I'm going to set up a date unless she rejects which then I will just blow her off.

This seams to be my problem with online game. I can get the number but most go cold after texting. I'm starting to think that I should just call instead of text I mean, if a guy has balls he'd call right? I'm starting to think that texting should be used more just for setting up the date. I think I've seen something on this but it was mixed reviews so if anyone has any input on it that would be great.

I don't even know how to do that lol... But me and this girl don't even talk anymore, I just don't see how she did not have the respect to say anything if she was going to cut me off... I hate to admit it but I REALLY miss this girl and am very tempted to msg her but I'm trying hard to avoid that hoping she would message me... It's been over a month and nothing...

I really liked this girl, it is tough to move on from a girl I KNOW I want vs other girls I can get but don't have the personality/qualities I like in a girl... Is there another way to get her back besides just waiting/hoping she would contact me?

I was in a similiar situation a while ago. The best thing I can tell you is not to txt her, but if you know she's gonna be at an event somewhere maybe go and strike up a casual covo with her. Don't portray any neediness act unaffected. End the convo on a good note without asking her out or to see her again that may get her thinking and she may contact you again. Its far from surefire but it has worked for me in the past. I'd suggest you do your best to move on and find a new girl I've been there and it sucks but sometimes you just gotta move on. Good luck!

Thanks for the reply...
Unfortunately this girl lives almost an hour away, so the chances of me ever running into her are slim. Though it is possible I'd run into her in a club downtown or something but that is VERY unlikely... I don't even have her on Facebook or anything so there is really nothing for me to go by, all I have is her #...

I really thought I'd be over her by now but I'm not, she is not easy to forget and I'm having a tough time forgetting her. I had a bad case of oneitis for another girl and this is the girl that got me over it, so I know if I do find a better girl that'll help but man it is RARE to find a girl like this, she had way too many similar interests and all... She was REALLY into me, do you really believe she feels nothing for me now? This is truly one girl I would fight for but I don't want to let her know that or show any neediness...
The whole time I was talking to her I played it real cool, was not being too available for meet ups and even had my text game going. I don't know how I lost her especially after she accepted a 3rd date with me...

Mate I know this will sound harsh but seeing as you can miss a girl that you've not even slept with, only texting I can tell you that you don't have a very interesting life.

I mean you've not been talking for a month. That's a long time. And you still miss her. Of course if you have nothing else going for you you'll start thinking about her. Although I find it very weird since this wasn't even a relationship between you two.

My suggestion is the usual, go out meet girls. But most importantly have a life which you enjoy, with or without a girl.

Forget this one.

I was doing fine till I fractured my ankle and got stuck on crutches... Life hasn't been interesting these past couple weeks have been horrible and when I'm bored she is all I think about... And I know it wasn't a relationship but it was pretty damn close to one the way she was all over me... It isn't easy to forget someone who is on your ass 24/7 then leaves with no word.

And I agree, I think I really need to enjoy being happy with myself, I tied my happiness to this girl which is why it is so hard for me right now. Everything was good just a month ago, and anytime I was out having a good time without her I wanted her there. She drilled it in my head this was going somewhere and just pulled a 180 that is what killed me.

I have a similar problem...except I was in a long distance relation

check out my thread

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So it's been few months now and never heard from her again.. This one is always gonna bother me, this was one girl I truly got along with and connected with... I saw a picture of her couple weeks ago and all these old feelings stirred up again.. Not having closure with this girl really messed me up...

But I met another girl and I really like her and she actually is very genuine so I think this was in the end a good thing. If this girl never disappeared on me I wouldn't have met this new girl... So I gotta say as long as you don't give up you definitely rebound emotionally... I'm in a good place now with all this mentally now but took way too long