who's cowboy?
and do you think it would be good if i take her to a lone park which is 40-60 minutes of driving from our town? just sit there and talk? or maybe should i bring some blankets to sit on and some food and ask her to bring her guitar? yeah im currently in a very confident state of mind that she is totally into me and im going to k-close tonight and get her emotonially attached during the week till im leaving and then before i leave i give her the "we'll be in touch when i'll be back" alpha-speech and everything is good... im going to call her in like 2 hours and tell her when to be ready... im going to keep the place as a secret and we'll go to some nice lone park here altough it would be far.

Cowboy is Retired Rodeo.

Look. We're basically blind except for the limited information that we can glean from your posts. So you'll have to calibrate.

You can try stargazing at a building rooftop if you want. I think there's a meteor shower coming up. Checkout Google Earth for the nearest places for a hangout. Take out two red blankets. One for both of you to sit on and another to wrap her around with when it gets cold. It's also a good excuse to touch inside the blanket without people noticing.

Red builds up your attractiveness by at least 33%. Use it. If she doesn't flake, you're good. She was expecting an evening hangout, right?

• Evening = Romantic date

She's expecting something I think, if I'm not mistaken. Go for it.

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ok guys im settled!
i found a great place from the link you gave me and it's only 30 minutes from our city.. im going to bring a blanket to sit on and a red blanket to cover ourselves.. we're going to sit there and afterwards there is a 24/7 famous pancake house and we'll go there and eat pancake or smt like that! she wants me 100% and im going to k-close tonight for sure!

ok i sent her a short text that she would be ready and asked for her address, she called me and we had a very good convo in which i made her luagh continuously and she told me that she came back home last night at like 5AM so her parents are mad at her and i should get upstairs for a bit and impress them with my smile and then they will let her leave.. everything is going to be smooth!

ok so i'll tell what actually happend...
i came to her house and she told me her parents were gone for some reason and we can hang out in her place before we go out... we went to her room and i was very confident and comfortable and i made her luagh all the time... then she sang a bit and i managed to make eye-contact through everything and every time i smiled she smiled back.. then we decided to go and eat some sushi cause she had a fight with her parents and going to this far place was'nt good for her and i ofc had no problem to stay at her comfort-zone...
luckily we went to this main-street of our town and on our way we met two hot girls im friends with and two good friends which was good for my social proof... then we met her group of friends and i knew some of them also so it was going great.. we bought the sushi went to her house and ate it... afterwards we saw some tv on her bed, she said she was cold so we covered ourselves by the blanket which would help me to escalate the kino by hugging her over her waist and then while watching the tv show i made a nice trick i use in varied cases... i just said to myself "ok don't be an AFC, count in your heart 1....2.....3.... and you lean over to her grab her face and kiss her"
so that's what i've done.. she was impressed by this alpha-move we kissed everything was going really great she rejected any further development and then she said she was tired we went to the door, kissed a bit, she said she had really good time and i was going out of her door satisfied
thanks for everyone for helping me during this shit!

MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

Fucking outstanding!

Work your game!

RR

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Kewl.

Now, let's do a post mission analysis for the benefit of the newbies around here.

You'll realize that your HB9 baited you for a date in her place instead of anywhere else. Her test was, "Are you bold enough to face her parents?" Of course, you passed that one. It isn't an accident that her parents are not actually there. She knew she will have the house all by herself.

Her next test was, "Are you bold enough to kiss her?" Again, you passed that one dude.

What you failed to do is the f-close. But this is not an absolute failure yet if you kissed and touched her properly and your testosterone levels are high enough. I think I advised you in your other thread to workout 30 minutes to one hour before the hangout/f-close. I'll admit it's my fault I didn't repeat the instructions here.

But that's water under the bridge. Let's move forward to secure the relationship that you want with your HB9. Here are some things that you'll have to do.

• 1. Text her, "Heyah little shrimp." If she playfully texts you back with "Hi there daddy shrimp" or "Hi there big shrimp." then you have established your dominant frame and hence, your respective gender roles. She's yours. She has accepted you as the big, dominant male while she is the little, submissive female. In short, she has accepted you as a sexually attractive lover.
  
  2. Set up another hangout but not too soon and don't appear too eager. Let her set it up by baiting her with tame sexual innuendos. If you can't get your f-close on the next hangout, you'll lose her.

You'll have to pass all of her tests dude. Again, study some LMR strategies and calibrate her body language. You don't want to become a sexual offender at the same time you don't want to lose her. Calibrate properly and calibrate well.

P.S.

She also tested you if you were needy or not by rejecting your beach hangout. Again, you also passed that one. Congratulations but get to work ASAP. Study more LMR techniques and reading body language.

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something important i forgo't to mention is that while we were walking to the sushi she said "im checking if you're tall enough so i can wear high heels while walking with you" i negged her a bit by saying "who said i decided im going to meet you again?" but the main thing is that was a massive IOI and from then on i was sure im going to at least K-close this evening. (be aware of the small details)
thanks man but the main problem is that i have only a bit more than a week left.. that's why i was tempted to text her to set up an hangout asap and i sent her a text today "good morning monkey-girl (translated) " she replied "you too monkey-boy"
then i told her to come over to learn to the text cause "when you enjoy the frame the learning becomes better" she said "im sorry honey (translated) but i got a really bad mark and i have to put effort and be ready!" "i said no problem i will learn with my reguler girl-partner (translated)" so i won't look needy as hell out of it...
"she said enjoy learning monkey" (actually we even changed our names in eachther's phone to this monkey shit haha) i replied "i will.. enjoy the rest of your life monkey"
she said "thanks chess-pro" and i ejected by saying "ok my pretty girl (translated) im a bit busy so talk to me when you finish learning..." she said "it won't happen soon but ok" the conclusion is that my move was a bit AFC cause it was too early and i had to wait more i looked too eager.. now ofc im waiting for her to contact me and then i'll talk with her a bit and set a meeting for tomorrow night or smt, i'll say smt like "i wrote a new song and you need to hear it"
about the F-close.. it was'nt an option for our first date.. don't forget she is young and she is relativly innocent and slept with maximum one guy...

idoba,

You're doing great... Just a fair warning about texting... Many guys text themselves OUT of the pussy, too.

Text, but not too much. Never be seen as the guy always instantly responding. Make her MISS your texts, and via the content - make her WANT them. The Monkey nicknames - awesome. Touch on it, then leave it be - make it something that's just between you two...a mental connector.

Less is more.


RR

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Monkey girl... Monkey boy... Yep, she's yours aight.

Likewise, building emotional connections through songs is a great technique. Good job. Learn the other emotional connection types too to secure your winnings if the f-close is not yet possible.

Finally, as Cowboy said, "Less is more." Give her the gift of missing you. Let her realize you're scarce and hence, a very valuable part of her life.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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well because my mistake i now have to wait for her to contact me so i wno't come out as needy and in order to make her miss me and understand how much im important to her as Hellhound said.. ofc i think it's a fixable situation and my bad move was'nt cruciel but notice not to do impulsive things like i have done... im now going to wait for her to contact and then even not answer to her to get the frame control again.. then im going to give her some push/pull and finally to set a date and meet her again in order to emotonially connect her when the strings are the songs.

EDIT: as i wrote this post she texted me that she's sorry that she did'nt called me yesterday because she fell asleep early.. im now going to let her wait a hour or two and then comment like i did'nt really noticed or care.

If you comment that you didn't notice or care... it'll tell her the opposite.

Simply don't mention it. If she does - smile and say it's not a big deal - it's a non-issue.

I'd text her in an hour and make some random comment she'd never expect... "I'm wearing new socks" "Bees and dogs can smell fear" ... it doesn't matter as long as it's playful, random and energetic. Then you can steer the conversation in the direction you want it to go.

I text with purpose. I text to escalate a woman to call me or come over and fuck me. I turn it sexual everytime I can, and shitcan the chicks that bore me with inane bullshit or won't go sexual. Every random text I send is to simply re-engage the set and escalate.

Don't beat yourself up, dude. You're doing fine.



RR

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Don't say that you didn't notice or cared. No need to push here. Ignore it and if you want to text her send something playful. There are things in texts you can plain out ignore. This is one of them.mits nothing big, but if you ignore her "sorry...blabla" you already show you didn't care, but you're not pushing her away or being reactive.

Now it's a matter of not fucking up. There's really good advice here. Follow it. Don't get too caught up in being cocky funny. She seems a little innocent from the way you described, so don't go too hard (LOL).

Be nice in your texts to reel her in, then back away, making her wonder if you really meant it and why you reeled her in but are not responding now.

Good luck.

Way to steal what I wanted to say and post it before me. Not cool man, not cool.

thanks for the important advice.. texted her after smt like 75 minutes saying "i love my bob marley pants so much.." if the text convo is stuck.. i should just leave it and let her miss me again? we both have an exam on thursday and then i won't be avaible till next sunday so i guess there's no reason for me to intiate a convo with her.. i'll just tell her on thursday that i won't be availble this weeked so let's meet at sunday.. no rush.. i have to be patient in order to get what i want.