Don't reply to her immaturity bro... Shes not going anywhere.

And a real women is not gonna leave your side no matter what.. In fact, a real woman would spend all night looking through yellow pages, up on the computer, trying to help you find a better job even if you have one.

I have women in my life like this..

annnnd I still have not replied to her...and just got a long text from her...


Her: I really dont understand why your doing this. Like we should be mature and civil. I unblocked your on facebook. I just dont understand. I know i said mean things to you, but you have done the exact same thing to me and have made assumptions about my life. i just idk







A few years ago before we officially dated, i had said some things and made assumptions (which ended up being true! LOL)..and we quit hanging out..and talking...then started talking again and she'd complain about dudes...so i told her how it was.. I wasnt the "friend" for that..I wasnt a friend at all. I dont want to be friends..then about a year and half later we start hanging out and end up dating for a lil over a year... She still holds that close to heart....even though a few years later I have grown tremendously, emotionally..and in my opinion, have handled the break up very,very well..and am proud of myself at how far I've come in these few years.


But now I really dont know what I'm supposed to say lol Should I say anything to that text?

it was above your last post...I noticed that we had posted at the same exact time, so it was easily missed

give more detail in on what the long text said.. write it out for me


What I can tell you is, you've came soo far.. it would be devastating to me and you to not stick it out at this point.. She has to break down.. her behavior is becoming more and more ideal everyday.. This is nothing bro.. This is the process when she gets transformed into the girl who will never even consider cheating on you, also the looking through yellow pages chick...

By unblocking you from facebook, shes not really doing any good.. You shouldnt have been blocked anyway. Its like if a child breaks your favorite toy on purpose.. then decides to clean it up. Is he just? no.. he shouldnt of broke it in the first place.. Shes about to go to normal, which is okay.. where you want her is when shes about to cross the line over in " the girlfriend every guys wants" .. Hold steady.. I'm help you with this, because i wish i had someone there for me when i went through it..

I hear ya...I know she blocked me because she thought I blocked her. When in reality, I deleted her from my friends list after she made it clear she wanted to move out. I have my facebook settings to where if you're not on my friends list, you can't even find me on facebook..send me messages, add me, etc. Its like I dont even have a face book....so she felt the need to block me..I didn't quite understand it either. And now she unblocked me..I'm like so what???


Me: lol stop over reacting
Her: Ok

.......a few minutes later

Her: I'll talk to you later


duhhh, its not like I'm going to be texting her anytime soon!!


And I'm glad I found this place, because you, Fuze, and a few others have helped alot...I feel like I'm starting to SEE and understand the psychology behind this shit a little better...which is great..so I definitely appreciate it all


I think she unblocked me to try and see what I'm up to...but she still cant see my facebook regardless....but I feel that, by not talking to her..she thinks I'm on to other things and its bugging her not knowing

Your exactly right... shes just curious because your beahving more attractively... Im sure she'll ask a friend of a friend to look at your profile for her. Or make a fake account and add you as a friend... Stay strong

She'll come knocking at your door soon enough..