Update.
I'm more or less done with the girl who it all started with.
anyway i went out yesterday. Got into a conversation with a girl we talked for about 20mins after that i got her number and i returned to my friends. I saw her later that evening out dancing alone, so i went over started dancing and 1-2mins later i got a kiss-close. really nice hb8 my friend who i was out with, also put her as a hb8. Anyway during kiss and dance she told me several times that i should write her tomorrow. After our dance she went back to her friends. When me and my friend left the bar i got eye contanct with her again and walked over. She gave me a hug and we kissed again, infront of her friends. When i left she again told me to, remember to write me tomorrow.
And yeah its tomorrow and i wrote her 4 hours ago and no answer. hmm what should i do now? im sure the number is correct, i checked it on the net and it match her name. Should i write a 2nd sms, add her on fb and game her from there, if its not lost already. or just forget about it and delete her number?.

Take it easy man.. It`s good to hear that you stopped with your first target (one-itis).. And for this one, take it easy.. You`re a man with options, don`t hang on to her like she`s your soul mate or smth.. You had a great time and all that, and you wrote her.. If she enjoyed it too and you did everything great, she will write you back. If not, then.. fuck it.. Don`t chase her or whatever. There are billions of reasons why she didn`t write you back.. Yet.. So just wait, don`t text her twice.. And as for the fb game.. If you have a good profile there, do it But remember, take it easy

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Haha yeah im taking it easy now;)! Yeah she didnt write back, but as you said FK it. I'm gonna go out this weekend and have even more fun then i had this weekend!:) Thanks for the advice Sidtine:)!

But what you should do in my opinion is, that you make a short review the next day after the sarging or if you have a wing who tells you, what you did wrong (mostly about body language), so that you can see what are your sticking points. I do that and I get better every time.. Step by step. You can`t become a PUA immediately, and I think you`re on a great way of becoming one.. Keep on the good work, we need guys like you in this community No problem )

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Thanks for the advice. I normally do that. My wing was really surprised as well. He too could not understand why she did not reply because my wing told me. That she showed interest from the beginning, clear IOI ,even told her friend to go back to the others. Anyway it was a good experiences for me, and another step to becoming a PUA:) I keep updating this thread, when new things happens:)

Huh, god knows why.. Don`t worry, you did everything right and you`re building your way up. Things like that will happen from time to time.. But stay on your track
Yes, please.. It`s an amazing thread if you ask me
Just a little note.. I had a similar problem with one girl and it was happening during yours.. I`ve been all smart and giving advices to you, I hope good ones, but it`s always easier to give good advices then to actually make good descisions for myself.. And I`m asking you now, how do you feel towards that girl now? Speaking from my point of view in my situation, I feel like I left a lot of things undone with her and I feel like some of an obligation to make things right.. And the most challenging part here is, that leaving this behind wouldn`t be a problem at all, but I somehow feel, that this strange situation we are in right now (I would be happy If you would take your time and listen to it.. ) is bcs of things I done wrong and not bcs of what she claims to be the problem.. Long story short, after all the crap that`s been going on, she fucked me off and told me that she never felt anything towards me, but I have a strong feeling that that`s not completely true and the reason lays somewhere else and that I can make it right again..

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There are no lesbians, just women who never met Sid.

Yeah sometimes i dont get girls haha;)!
Uhm right now, there is no feelings at all towards the girl. I found out, when i went to her places yesterday to say goodbye and wish her a merry chirstmas before she went home. I could feel that there was no attraction or anything left. I think its because she some weeks ago told me, that she never saw me as anything other then just a friend and i never had a shot with her. And that was kinda of the turning point for me, i knew i had to move on and did. TBH i dont feel there is anything left "undone". Now im enjoying life and learing the art of becoming a pua:)!

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

Sorry that i been so quited lately but, it is christmas;)! Anyway a little summery 2 weeks ago i went out, talked to this hb7 hit it of pretty good. Got a numberclose. Now i just need to work on my sms game haha, didnt really go so good there. But you learn from mistakes, right?. Went out yesterday, was a really good evening. Was close to getting a kclose with a hb8. But she was playing hard to get and playfull. So i left her hanging at a point, she wanted more. But my wing got to drunk and had to put him in a cab so he could go home. And never managed to find the girl again. bro's before ho'es. Who said i was not a bro;)! Anyway with me going out more and approaching girls, i can feel its getting "easier" and easier.