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"i grew some balls and apologized"
this sentence is an oxymoron
How so, apologizing when you genuinely should is perfectly acceptable.
In fact, the one who refuses to ever apologize is the pansy in my eyes.
agree with this,
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being her friend and nothing more, and this will not get him laid, but it is likely that she is not interested in either and is shooting validation towards him, to receive favors and ego boosts, basicly the advice givin in this thread might be or seem somewhat harsh but what do you think is better for the guy...
How do you know she isn't interested in either? If a girl is dependent upon validation wouldn't that make her want to be at least a friend?
KEEP TRY'N BRO, GIRLS LOVE IT WHEN YOU CAN'T BE WITHOUT THEM AND ACT DESPERATE AND LET THEM WALK ALL OVER YOU!! MAYBE IN TWO YEARS SHE WILL GIVE YOU A HANDJOB FOR BEING HER GOOD LITTLE PUPPY
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No one is saying to him that he should be desperate. I understand that you read into it like that, but no one is telling him to act like a wussy. It is okay to be honest with people. There is nothing wrong with not being the most confident guy in the world. It's okay, and I think it's better if we realize we aren't the most confident people in the world, because the sooner we do, the sooner we will stop being an asshole to women out of our insecurities.
she is interested, in being a friend, or she wouldn't be putting him in the lineup, that's the way female players work, he most likely had a chance and still does, but if you take to long to get sexual you are boring, if your not a challenge you are boring, then it becomes a never ending loop of, entertain me and do stuff for me, then you become her 'do stuff for me' guy and you will naturally think her validation towards you in regards to your compliance = attraction, when really it is the equivalent of GOOD BOY, GOOD LITTLE BOY, YES YOU ARE, YES YOU ARE, if he just ignores her, that is the best chance she starts to miss him, and re-contacts, if he just waits, maybe she invites him out and he gets a second chance,there is nothing wrong with apologizing when you were an asshole, I have actually gotten laid more then once from apologizing the point was, when you are being led on and flaked on, IT IS A WASTE OF GOD DAMN TIME, move on, keep her in the roster, but ignore her, no need to go all I LOVE YOU, I NEED YOU, on her, apologizing in this situation just seems like it leaves a dead end for him in this situation
just leave her the hell alone, if she really cares she will come back, easy as that
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