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the following are my own tips and tricks.
problems
1. you have thrown your cards on the table already by telling her that you like her and kept messeging her (read the string and the cat theory by mystery)
2. you are not playing the game. you are getting played by the game. you need to get your value back.
OPTION A: answer this man: have you been to italy before? If you answer no....do you miss it? no cus you've never been there==>the pedestal theory. Right now she is on the pedestal. you have put her on there (also the fact that she is a model makes it worse). you need to take her off the pedestal and she will miss it.
(the following real experiment is from the book BRAIN RULES: sec genders)
I termed it the bouncing ball theory:
- 5 yr old boy: throws a ball to a roof top and tells his freind "look I can throw it all the way to the roof top"
-his freind: grabs the ball and throws it to the sky and he says "look I can throw it all the way to the sky"
-the 5yr old boy: grabs the ball and throws it as hard as he could "look i can throw it all the way to the outer space"
^ this is how guys are programed we compete for the better.
5 yr old girl throws a ball to a roof top and tells her freind "look I can throw it all the way to the roof top"
her girlfreind grabs the ball and throw it upwards saying " look I can do it too"
^this is how girls are programed. they competefor the same trophy, not higher.
forexample:
If your guy freind has a beautiful girlfreind (jessica), you would try to fine someone even hotter, and wouldn't think much about fucking jessica cus you don't want a second hand pussy in your tribe.
If a girls is dating a handsome Alpha type man, all her girlfreinds would want to get the same guy. he is the leader of the tribe. It's genetics. and it works. I was able to have sex with my girlfreinds roommate( who has a boyfreind herself) after 9 hours of spending time with her. you need to act like you have lost interest compeletly. after a week or 2 start flirting with another girl (put a new girl on the pedestal). your girl of interest will miss it and will try to throw the ball the the same level by coming after you.
option B: Go up to her, one on one, confident, alpha, groomed. tell her how you feel about her and say "If you don't feel the same about me I would understand, I just want you to know, I don't think i'm going to like you forever if you don't feel the same. I will eventualy going to move on. and tell her to give you an answer. 70% chance it will work. 30% it won't. If it doesn't try option A
Option B is a bad choice. It shows confidence but it's way too late to pretend you're entirely confident.
Option A is true. Another poster said she would be annoyed seeing you pick up on other girls at school, and I agree. That said, she should see you being close friends with other girls, especially her friends (even if its not her best friend, just someone she talks to). Be social and positive, make female friends. Do your best to find romantic possibilities outside of school. The positive effects of doing this will be very evident to her. There are many, and it's stupid to try to fake an abundance mentality or social value if you can work to genuinely get it. That said, don't pursue her anymore. In fact, give her much much less attention. Anytime you see her, have a short friendly conversation, act like you're happy to see her, but no more. All other times, appear to be too busy to talk to her. She should see you talking with other girls MUCH more than you talk to her.
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