compassionate oneitis This one is you've found a girl you have some interest in, not oneitis or anything but then you find out something bad has happened or is happening to her.

Not trying to hi-jack; but I have that. An ex I still have feelings for... is starting meth; is homeless and is paying her new 'boyfriend' with sex for rent when she can stay over. Shes 16; hes 22.

Yeah "/
Advice? I feel fucked up. badly.

Sorry double post.

I'm thinking of trying to ignore it. Its hard as you can imagine (its affecting my life pretty badly since I was very close and friends etc. Trust me its a LOT deeper than what I wrote; its affecting my whole social life/school life/confidence etc).

I know the ending to this fairy tale. She's not going to survive. I want to help her; but I just can't. And she rejects all my help because her 'boyfriend' of 1 week is her 'soulmate'. Seriously :L.

But topic related.
I'm assuming that improving myself; getting my charisma back; going to the gym and all that can help me get self confidence and thats all you need; knowing you can get any other women even tho she is 'perfect' in your eyes. Granted a set period of time. And reading tales of success to help also gains confidence (e.g. 'The game' as its a story not a guide-line).

Having a one night stand wouldn't help if you have feelings for someone. For women cheating on men is an emotional backlash and men its just sex (proven physcology).