Do you guys want to hear something stupid and funny ?

I went to her place.

Im over her in terms of, I could handle it if I saw a guy fucking her there.


I just needed to know wtf was going on. It's so stupid, we used to be best friends, have sex, talk about everything together.

And now, she is never initiating contact. She is acting distant. She is going to parties with guys 4 years older than me. She is smoking pot, and she starts drinking beer.



I asked her if she had kissed someone else (our break up was 2 months ago)
She said no, but she hesitated. So I told her I didnt believe her.

lol im trying to get her back, I dont know how this is going to unfold. I might get hurt way more than I have been.
Right now I am reestablishing me as a friend. Because, she would not even let me in at first.
I do know that deep down inside she still has feelings for me. She told me I would always be special to her

But Im afraid that all she is going to do is giving me hope, so I will continue to boost her ego. Basically giving me hope to come running for her while she is looking for better out there.
damn.

the reasons for the break up were that I was possessive and that she was in control

It sounds stupid but if she won't chase me, I chase her. the chasing is addictive.
I read on the internet that if you want to get your ex back, you should never chase.
On the other hand, the reason why I dont really care if I blow this up forever is because she was not that special.


there is one more thing. Why is she acting so distant ? It's like there is a glass wall between us. I think honestly that she is afraid to give in, so we end up doing things she might regret later

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Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

its major oneitis if you cant get over it then none of our advice will work. all of us on the forum can give advice but if you cant get over it then the advice is meaningless

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Oh c'mon. You are fooling everyone. Nobody could be as desperate as to accept a girl cheating on him but still wanting her. You like to get attention from the people here. For the 1 % probability that you are being serious, I can only tell you that you are the biggest loser I have ever seen.

Dude!!! Seriously your either fucking with all of us or this is your first real relationship and your heart is completly 100% broken apart and been stomped on because your acting like the worlds number 1 AFC!!!! Come on man!!! She fuken cheated on you!!! I had something similar happen to be back when i was 19 (23 now). I had a GF of 2 years and she cheated on me......to be honest it was the best thing that happened to me because i found out about this community when i was at my lowest point. I was like you for like 3-4 weeks. I couldnt eat, sleep, and all i could think about was her....and ways to get her back. DUDE FUUUCK THAT!!!! You dont need this bitch in your life man, trust me! What you have to do now is what i did. Forget about her (i know itll be hard) but hey get a gym membership workout, socialize meet new people. Little by little you wont even remember who this person was. Go out have fun open sets pick up and bone! You have to get over this for yourself........i mean come on dude.....shes fucking another guy....she doesnt give a shit about you anymore....you shoudnt either.

You Guys are Right, I MUST let go.

Im gonna get a gym membership asap, and I need to go see my parents today cuz im lonely as fuck.

thank you for support guys, im recovering now. If Im back in a few months I think I will have some cool stories

Bye for now

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

Remember man, you can stick around, share your experiences. Talking on here can always help you get through things quicker.

man i thought i'm worst afc...ur even worst than me...
pull yourself together and move on or good luck

something in the post stuck with me, 'im lonely as fuck' surround yourself with friends and loved ones and female friends (ones youre not sleeping with) go out with them (not sexually) spend time out as much as possible if you spend too much time on here youll be thinking about it as opposed to having fun

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This post is directed more to people reading the post than the original poster. It really does seem hard to believe a guy could be that... that. But believe it. AFCism to this level of depravity is actually more widespread than you think. You should in fact be thankful that it is, and not sad, because that is exactly why seduction techniques work and what keeps PUA's in business. I work with a guy who basically shares his wife with these two other guys. Every couple of weeks or so, she disappears for a month to go stay with one of these guys. When she's done screwing that guy she calls up her husband to come pick her up and bring her back home. Meanwhile, he's been calling her the whole time begging for her to come back home. When she does, I get to hear him bragging about great he is because he "stole" her back from the other guy she left him to go sleep with until she was bored of him. The guy spends 50% of his time at work in the bathroom calling home to make sure his wife is still at the house.

My co-worker is one of the worst AFCs I have ever met. I find it funny that he blames the other guys his wife sleeps with and not his wife. This year he got a large tax return, and during one of his wife's "down periods" he lent out $600 to a woman he just met that started working with us, completely and obviously with the sole hope that she would sleep with him. Needless to say what happened was not only did she not sleep with him, but she also refuses to ever pay him back. The woman did, however, sleep with another guy at work right after he gave her the money. But of course it's all ok now... because his wife came back home last week. I should also mention that both this woman and this man's wife are HB negative 10. His wife literally looks like the ass-end of a piece of undercooked bacon that was shat out of a diseased hobbit's gangrenous vagina. He loves her, though.

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this is one of the straight up most depressing threads ever, ending with that pitiful example of a man. to the original post, man you've heard it a thousand times, move on, please. nothing good will ever come from getting back together because there is no trust, check maslow's hierarchy of needs to show how that fucks you from a tested psychological stand point. we're rooting for you, now go out and do it. and to that last post, can you punch your co-worker in the dick for all of us and leave a copy of the game on his desk, that way he'll remember he has balls and have something to show him what to do with them. there are always more fish in the sea

You should not have agreed to have been her friend again, not just for gaming purpose but because you plain and simple dont wanna be friends. Now on a gaming perspective you agreeing to be her friend was basically you telling her she could have you any time she wants in her life to care for her emotionally, i mean im new to this stuff and i can already say i wouldnt have made even half as many mistakes...must be the one-itis fucking with your head man. You gotta understand that women are drawn to the alpha male who basically dont give a shit about her (the guy shes fucking right now, yeah it hurts). dont text her back but if you really want her you should find out where shes going out some night and game the hottest girls in the club to a make out and just show her what an alpha male really is, and if she comes over trying to talk with you for it just say..im kinda busy right now but id love to chat some other time. (she has your number shes gonna call it after that) Good luck and remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE....NOT HER.

i had seen all the post in this thread and its really encourage me to move on .

basically i just start to get to know this two girls .
at first we still txt to each other but i think i screw up my txting game and phone game too .

1st girl ( now)
now when i txt her , she didnt reply .

2nd girl (now)
i phone her and she didnt take . althought it just 1 time . i dont want to make another call because i read some of the material here that say we should now show that we are needy

so currently , i felt sick about it .

i know that its the txt and phone game that i screw up(its too boring and i act total afc in txt and phone game) and i think my approach is still not that bad because i still get them to initiate a few txt at first.

i admit that i am sad bout it and feeling helpless.
i plan to move on and try to improve my txt game and phone game so that i can get this two back when my skill are better(a few month later ? maybe?)(presist ?) (of course i will try to approach more girls so that i am not thinking about this two ) .

So thank for all the motivation words (althought its not directly to me) and i really felt far much better now ( i felt bit sad for the past few day just because she didnt reply ...damn Afc)

is it ok to think " i am great and i can get better one than this two" ?

your in love now, but in 3 months she will be a strong memory. in a 6 months you'll just be pissed.

Learn and be better a better bf to the next one. Not to say that its all you, some girls are always looking to upgrade. In time you'll learn to spot them before they put you in a vice.

I recommend Vday episode of glee as a recent example of the cheating type.

http://www.hulu.com/stand_alone/eba1f2b ... n-playlist

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Gj for seeing that you must let her go, hope it all works out for you

yo guys

lol im surprised to see this thread up
it's almost been a year.

lol it's quite coincidence cuz I'm totally picking up gaming again.
I must say I have been sad, depressed and literally heartbroken over that ex girlfriend. I suffered from "stress myocardiopathy"
I don't know how the fuck but I could not stop the stress and the hurt I felt. I also automatically withdrew myself from the world :s I don't know why and my confidence was below zero.

Thanx so much for the replies all. It helped me through hell.

also I have something funny to share.
Yesterday I went out alone, I was heading for a party 2 hours away from my home and I had no place to sleep. It was literally freezing outside.
I felt like shit at first, low confidence and stuff.
On my way there I opened a 4-set of girls, 18 years old or something low-class. One of them was fat but the rest was really hot.
So we got into a convo but the fat girl was trying to cockblock me, cuz the 2 hottest girls from the group were like "we're lesbian do you like us ?" while kissing each other and trying to turn me on lol
I encouraged them, but this fat girl tried to cockblock. at first I ignored her, then as she got more fierce I gave her some attention. Then when she really got on my nerve I yelled at her "Hey shut up! You know why I talk to this girl? Cuz she's hot and you're fucking fat!"
LOL I never got into a fight with a girl before, untill yesterday! I didn't hit her or anything, I just held her arms and body back cuz she attempted to hit me and stuff. Then another guy came in, attacking me from behind cuz this girl was yelling and cursing at me lol! This aggressive guy tried to provoke me or something :S he kept walking into me aggressively "DON'T TOUCH ME! DON'T TOUCH ME!" But he kept walking into me :S
So I pushed him away really hard and yelled "GET OFF FROM ME!"
Then his friends joined lol
and I got scared, I was like fml I'm alone and I'm getting into a stupid fight cuz of this fat chick!
and this hot chick was like helping me like "no! he didn't do anything! we were just chatting! Don't do anything to him!"
Adrenaline was pumping through my blood but I tried to remain calm. I tried walking away, but his friends were like "hey where you going!" So I turned around, and they had already surrounded me. So I just calmly explained everything and explicitly made clear I didn't mean to get into a fight or anything. They were cool with that and let me go, they were like okay bro (gangster type people) don't worry man, just leave. and they all gave me a bro fist. lol.
I walked to the bus stop to continue my journey, but I was all shaking (due to cold and adrenaline)
Then when I finally arrived at that party, it was very dead. only 12 people were inside or something.
after ordering a coke I saw an old friend, and it was really good to talk to him again. then i talked to 2 girls who I vaguely recognized from high school 3 years ago and it was just relaxed. I gamed them but they were hb5's so no stress and it just gave me some confidence.
then we went to another club, and there was this stunning hot girl dancing and I was talking to her after she danced and she was totally cool, but it turned out she had a boyfriend.
it was okay though, we just flirted and from my point of view it was not a fail.

the 2 girls (my hb5 pivots lol) were just standing next to me as I talked to that hot girl. lol
Then I took the pivots back to the dancefloor, and the hot girl left. I got her facebook contact info, cuz she didnt want to give her number due to her bf.
there I met a semi hot blonde girl lol! She was totally flirting with me and I had this gut-feeling that she just wanted sex.
luckily I needed a place to sleep for the night, so I explained my situation sincerely and she was willing to take me home that night =)

I talked to some more ladies and shit was cash, cuz a friend of that blonde girl had a bike and I could use that bike to get to their campus. I cycled while she sat behind me giving me directions. This girl was even engaged :s but she was totally feeling me up under my jacket and gave me compliments and shit :s
but i really liked it :p
then at campus there was an after party and I lost that girl I dunno where she went but she went to bed early and I hadn't noticed her leaving.
at the end of the night I slept with that blonde girl.

cool story huh

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies