Final thoughts before I leave you to your think time:


She's not on the fence bro. (Aside from the one text that you cant seem to get out of your head)

She could NOT have made it more clear that she did not want you to contact her.

the emails, the actions in and around the club, everything.

I don't mean this in a mean way, but you are delusional about this subject. Open your eyes, eventually you will see it. But until then, this advice, that... By the way.. you asked for.. Will hold no merit. what you were really doing, was hoping to read something that you wanted to hear. It's not the best move, but EVERYONE has done it.

let us know when you wake up one morning and realize, that after the shit that you guys went through, you're better off without it.

But, she is for sure not on the "fence"

Best of luck

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The part where she came directly to me to ask a question anyone else in the group could have answered, the part where she left and then decided to come back and rejoin us, or the part where she stood right next to me for the show instead of distancing herself?

I didn't get confused for no reason, you know... I may have been looking for evidence, but I wouldn't have seen things which weren't there.

It just occurred to me that perhaps we are not discussing quite the same subject.

I know she does not want me to contact her.

The question is why.

Is it because:

A) She hates me for pressuring her
B) She needed to push me away since we couldn't be together anyway as she was about to fly halfway across the country, her commitment/trust issues made the concept even more frightening to her, AND she knew that if we did try a long distance relationship she'd likely cheat on me.

That's part of where I'm stuck... I guess it's hard for me to think she'd hate me because I broke down one night. Yet, even if she did still have feelings for me there's all that other stuff in the way.