...hmmm.. well

considering the fact the we (sort of) established "I just want you as a friend", I would simply call her, and have a conversation "hi, what's up... funny thing happened to me.. blah blah..." like you have with a friend, I would try to get with her, meet in a coffee shop or go to the mall or wherever just to hang, I would try to get to know her and more importantly let her get to know ME better, I would always kino, if we walk I would give her my arm (not hand, that's something more personal, like lovers do... my arm not hand for now), I would bring cocky funny lines always, but have a serious and interesting conversation. Now, she IS somewhat a kinky girl so we would probably talk about sex, but in general, not to much jokes and stuff... more importantly she should KNOW, that with you she can have fun and enjoy, and at the same time you can be an interesting guy.. always kino escalate and go for a K-close if possible, never let it become awkward, and DON'T fall into the friend zone (by still being sexual and kino escalating)

if possible I would go to a party with her AND friends after, at which point she should tail me around, and eventually I would f-close

but more importantly she should have an experience, an adventure.. which is not that hard to accomplish, you could take her to a place most guys won't take her, like, for example a zoo, girl will tell you time after time that guys never take them to a zoo and that is soo cool... , or you said youre denish, if youre from Copenhagen take her to Tivoli, amusment parks are always fun

I don't really know what frame did you set, but I try to always be a guy that girls will wonder "who is THAT guy", they will know of my success with women but I don't brag, i just have a conversation with them

anyway.. key word COMFORT, she should be comfortable with you, even thu you had some "thing" with her, then it will be OK to sleep with you

(after edit:)
owe and another thing... she shouldn't under any cosicuinses thin youre trying to meet her to get in her pants...

after you established comfort its more then ok to tell her "I LIKE YOU"... that will also bring you out of frind zone, and hopefully she will answer "I like you too".. enjoy

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Alright. The only problem is, although I wrote her that we should still be friends, we've never really been friends except meeting sometimes thru her sister. I think asking her to go some place just the two of us - we've never spent time alone before - would be kinda obvious. Anyway, something interesting, I guess, happened today; since I'm utterly stupid, I locked myself out of my apartment last night, and spent the night with a friend, but since I couldn't stay at him again tonight, and getting a locksmith would be cheaper tomorrow, I asked the girls sister if I could stay at her place tonight (they live together), I've done this some times before and we're both cool about it, so she said yes, though she has an exam tomorrow. She wrote something like "Well, I probably won't be socializing much but of course you can. I can just sleep with X - or you can haha!" I was kinda unsure what to reply, but ended up going with "Both works for me seriously tho, thanks", after which she proposed that we eat dinner together. Now, I randomly managed to get back into my apartment anyway and, after considering whether to lie just to stay at her place and meet her sister, I decided not to - I'd feel bad for lying to such a good friend. So I told her that I got back in, but said that we could have dinner together still if she was up for it, to which she just replied "haha how?" and then sent me, accidentally, a message in her native language, which she speaks with her sister, but I dont speak - Google translate says "and here's not yet entered". I suppose it might be "he's not here yet", but it might be something not for her sister. I dunno. I replied how I got in, and she hasn't answered - I guess that means we're not having dinner.

Anyway, there's at least some keeping the thing alive I guess. I'm not sure what to make of the whole thing, maybe it's nothing. After all, it's the sister of the girl I was gaming, and not the girl herself, but they're pretty close, so the sister will know what I texted - "Both works for me " - good or bad?

Edit: I talked with a bosnian friend, completely unrelated to those two, who translated for me, the text said: "He got in anyway..", so that means theyre talking bout me surely.

Another edit: I was watching the youtube-videos of Vin DiCarlo and Julian Foxx discussing text game, and it's really rather interesting. I came up with the idea of writing her something like "Hey X, I got a great idea." - "Whats that?" - "You know (name of café)?" - "Yea/No" - "(Location if no) - see ya at (time)." [maybe that's too strong, I could go with just "(time) there?" or "Let's meet there at (time)" or something]. What do you think of this idea?

experiment man, try to text, it's better then doing nothing

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Alright, so I texted her today. I'd been talking with her sister a bit, not about her specifically, but her sister would ask me to come watch her play handball, texting stuff like "X will be there too ". But anyway, I was set on texting her anyhow, so I did. The convo went like this:

Hey X, I got a good idea.
Hey Y, what's that?
You know (name of café)?
Yeah I do. Sitting right across from it with my studypartner right now actually. Why? It's a real smoker's place hehe
Yeah it is, but cozy as well. See ya there at 8?
[bit longer wait here]
Sadly I can't. Going to study all day and got plans for dinner with my studypartner. Owe him dinner. I think we should get together soon for trivial tho. [I used to hang out with her mainly thru playing trivial pursuit with her sister and a friend of mine, which means a situation of 4 with no romance, and probably just awkwardness between us.]

So, I took that pretty much as a no. Maybe it was stupid of me to go ahead after the text about her studypartner, I might've had better luck suggesting tomorrow instead when she texted that. Or it might be too late to text. Or maybe she simply was never interested. I'm happy I wrote her anyway, it was worth the shot. Thanks for your help.

Also, my response to the last text was: "Yeah let's do that, enjoy your evening ". I figured I wanted to come off like I didn't care much, although I didn't really think much about the last answer.

Just to keep you updated on how this ended, I f-closed her yesterday night, which I'm very happy about. To do a quick sum-up of what happened, I had to help her sister with some stuff and we had dinner together, her sister had to go for handball and we just had 5 minutes by ourselves. I decided to just take off to avoid excessive awkwardness, when I left she gave me a long hug, said I was sweet, and we had a long eye-contact, but rather than make-out, she grabbed my shoulders and turned me around towards the door, heh. I guess not very alpha at all to let myself be directed by her like that, but it was quite an intimate moment.

After this, she was on my mind a lot for the next couple of days, and I guess I knew I had to text her, so I did yesterday - she was really quite non-responsive to my texts, or at least very formal, but I guess that's her text-style. We ended up arranging to meet up at a bar, the two of us, a friend of hers, her sister and a friend of mine. She was acting totally different from her texts, held on to me when we hugged, held eye contact with me etc. Eventually, we ended up just the two of us as the rest took home, and were having a fun time talking and flirting more and more. I think I was pretty much behaving in a rather AFC-ish way. Well, not like buying her drinks and giving her compliments, but I wasn't at my best, I thought - I know only the very basics of PUA, I used some kino and said to her that we couldn't make out or something like that. I was afraid to go for the kiss because of the way we sat, which was good for talking, but bad for attempting the kiss. There's was lots of eye-contact and laughing, but as the bar was closing, I still hadn't gotten the k-close. She had said stuff like "Well, sometimes you gotta do what you feel like, and not worry too much about the consequences", while looking me quite deeply in the eyes.

In fact, I was so nervous about attempting anything that as we were walking, she asked me if I had a piano in my apartment, at which point I guess I finally picked up on something, told her to come and hear me play, so we went to my apartment, I played piano for her which impressed her quite a bit (I'm a pretty advanced classical pianist - I sometimes wonder how many girls I'd get if I was as good a guitarist as I am a pianist ), and I guess it was what you call LMR when she said "Well, I only came to hear you play piano so I guess I should go home now", to which I replied "Shut the fuck up and come sit in my couch", where I was sitting, and well, from here the rest was pie.

We weren't drunk, so neither really had any regrets today. She told me as she left, "it was stupid, but I don't regret it", the stupid part cause of her sister I guess, and we did a bit of kissing as she left. I've felt really good about it, it was all really quite intimate, and I had earlier developed a bit of oneitis for her. Sorry for the long post here, I guess I needed to get some stuff off my chest.

Thanks for your help, which made it all end happily.