I think some of the comments above touched on something pretty important...I believe there is a big difference between being pretty/handsome versus being sexy. I see quite a few really pretty women, but not all of them are sexy. I've seen quite a few cute women who are just really sexy. I'm not sure I can quantify it. For instance, one waitress I know had a very cute body, nice hair, and a fairly cute face...but something about her was totally sexy, I could've thrown her down right there in the bar in front of everyone. I could just imagine fucking her brains out. I've seen women who were extremely pretty, but just didn't come across as "sexy" to me. I admire them, but I just don't get those overwhelming mental images of fucking their brains out. Sexy isn't just about looks, although that's part of it.

I'd assume the same is true with women's viewpoints of men...there's probably a difference between "handsome" and "sexy". Again, sexy isn't just about looks, although that's part of it.

Gruuve

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With the risk of sounding arrogant, I do consider myself fairly attractive, and I do notice when girls notice me;

In my experience, of trying to talk to them, or call them over, they seem to shy away, especially if there seems to be an age difference;

in the end, its a case of "they're probably just as scared of you, as you are of them"

I think, the most important advantage of being good-looking is the fact, that women tend to "forgive" a lot of your unproper behaviour. If you're in her type, you could do mistakes, which, done by - let's say - average guy, would not be forgiven.

It sometimes happens when a girl thinks: damn, he acts like a jerk, but still he's so cute I'll give him another chance. Or: if he wasn't so good-looking, I would get rid of him but his eyes... make my legs soft

know what I mean

expat_of_love

"My slumps have come from nights when I dressed up and shaved."

haha so true.

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If you are a good looking guy you really need to throw away some of the routines & cheezy palm ready gambits etc IMO. When you do that on chicks they sniff it out IMO & are like why the hell is this guy doing this.

They probably do it for more average looking guys as well, but the really attractive guys I think are more endanger of really come off as socially inept or try hard player types where as some of the more average guys probably need some of that to buy them time to demonstrate their confidence & higher value & such in sub communication & the girls might be more likely to give them the time if they have some interesting chick crack games to hold their attention.

I think I'm a little more attractive than average & when I would run some of those games and such chicks would look at me like WTF are you doing that for just talk to me. That's the vib I got.