That tickled..

I think you're misunderstanding a bit how thoroughly I understand your situation. Not only is there nothing new understand the sun( All relationships end for 1 of 3 reasons), but me and you also share core personality similarities(june 12th?), and I've had a few asian girlfriends; two of which are the hiphop heads you project this girl to be. They're not hard to find honesty; at least if you have any skill. And you sound like you do.. You found you a hip hop - urban culture obsessed asian chick. Big deal.

But sense your emotions are taking over and temping you into spiraling out of control because of your subconscious minds fear of any discomfort i'll give you and ABC...ahh.

A) She has to contact you a third time before you initiate. I will not bend on that.

B) If she texts you, depending on what it says you choose whether you respond.. If you is opening herself up emotionally, you respond.. For example: "I miss you" - "This is hard for me" - "thinking of you" ~ Anything with her expressing herself emotionally you can respond.

If she sends you normal litmus test type text just to check on how you feel on her emotionally; or to bait you into getting emotional so she can further validate to herself the reason why she left you. For example: " What are you doing " - " How are you" - "Whats up" ~ You ignore it and she will follow up in less than 24 hours with a emotionally open text thats okay to respond to. It happens 9 times out of 10. I swear before the almighty.

C) If she calls, you do NOT pick up.. You text her a question mark "?" - 5-10 minutes later.. And then reply to whatever she says with " I'm out.. I'll give you a call a lil later"

And then you're free to call her 2-3 hours later.

These are the instructions that will GET you the girl.. and not just have you emotionally wrapped up with her again for another week before things are destroyed again.

Anything I didn't make clear?

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I really appreciate all your help, but I just have no patience when it comes to this…I rather just know my fate and if there’s no hope, fuck-it I’ll move on….That how I usually am in relationships, so I just went ahead and called her and she picked up…it was all good at first, then she started to bring up some of the undesirable things I did in the relationship (co-worker, porn-stuff) that made her feel the way she does...She lit me up a little but I took it in stride, however by the end of the conversation she warmed up and while she said she doesn’t want to do anything romantic right now, she agreed to come with me tomorrow to look for a new apartment (something I’ve been doing for a few weeks)…

Following the phone conversation she is now texting me funny things (LOL pics) and I’m texting her some stuff…Smiley face emoticons and what have you so it feels almost back to normal (although I’m not that foolish), so we will be hooking up tomorrow, Told her I wouldn’t pressure her into anything we’re just chilling looking for my new crib…Didn’t beg or grovel or say I’m sorry at all…Just was like I’m feeling optimistic following this week apart about what the future may hold for ME (not her)…And that moving to this new crib is my initial step for a good new perspective on things, perhaps, ultimately for both of us…

So I understand completely if you wanna give up on me, but I’m a Gemini and if you truly are one too I think you know I was going to do this…but I still ask that now we’re actually spending the day together tomorrow (why would she agree to this in your opinion?), what would be your advice moving forward…I do apologize, but I still request help…

Could this be the reason its yet to work out?

I'm a gemini, but I'm also not bound by my zodiac; we all eventually have to grow up and take full responsibility for ourselves. What you displayed is not signs of a gemini, its signs of emotional weakness. Sometimes you have to suffer today to be better tomorrow.

My advice is done here; doing the same thing over and over an expecting a different result is insanity. I choose to be sane.

Have your day, enjoy yourself.. And lets see if "how you usually are.." which clearly hasn't worked in the past, will end up working here...

Great dialog either way. It was needed on this forum.

Much love.

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